Will U Ever Forget Your First Love?
By minghappy
@minghappy (5)
China
June 24, 2009 4:38am CST
I broke up with my BF 5 months ago.He was my first love,since high school.We've been together for almost 7 years.Lots of things happened.It was terrible.I'm scared until now.but,I can't help myself thinking about him everyday.Only because he was the only man that I loved.
I'm a chinese girl.I want to talk with more friends,so I'm here,sharing the joys,the pains with u.I guess everyone had a first love,which was impressive,right?could u tell me that will he really love another girl so quickly that he can forget me completely one day?
4 responses
@andresimp (818)
• India
24 Jun 09
No one can forget anyone that they were close with for 7 years. but i can assure you that he would have put all his past at the back of his head, and would have started his life already! so you please dont waste your time thinking about him or wondering if has forgotten you or not? when you meet the right person in your life, you wont be able to remember your first love with whom you had terrible experiences. so be happy and move on! Don't bother him! good luck
@minghappy (5)
• China
25 Jun 09
you're right.He said 'he's happy'.and I'm trying to accept the fact.But I can't start a new ,happy life,it's too hard for me.I had bad dreams alomost every morning.Maybe I'm getting used of it.now I'm afraid of love,men,and promises. because the finally result is only lie and hurt.that's a true life.I have to face it.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
24 Jun 09
I have fallen in love a few times. To put it more bluntly, it was oneway love. The other either didn't know i was interested in her or she totally ignored me. Even when my 'love' was one sided i felt the pain when rejected. I can understand your pain. It's hard to forget someone whom loved deeply.
@minghappy (5)
• China
25 Jun 09
I think if you really wanna be with her,you should ler her know your feelings,'cause sometimes that's not bad.
Right now I just wanna do something that I want to.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
24 Jun 09
Hi Minghappy,
See, you use Happy as your user name, you should be happy! I am sorry to hear that you and you boyfriend did not work out. But you know what? Past is Past. pain past is pleasure. It's not easy to forget someone that you loved for 7 years, but you need to ask yourself what is the reason that you guys broke up? If the reason is that big that you and him can not be together anymore, then just let him go, trust me, as time goes by, you still can not forget him, but at least, it's not painful anymore. Take it easy and let him go. 
@minghappy (5)
• China
24 Jun 09
I'm so happy to see your message,really.
He said that his family didn't like me,and we worked in different places.so being together is not possible.but now I think that was only an exeuse.Maybe he just didn't want to be together with me any more.now he has a new girlfriend ,seems happy.I saw the photoes,the messages about them.I've got nothing to do except being silence,a painful silence.
r u a chinese girl too?O(n_n)O
