Do you LOVE your mate or are you in LOVE with them?
@virtualmirage (494)
United States
June 24, 2009 2:14pm CST
There is a bit difference between loving someone and being in ove with them. I know thats what a lot of people use as an excuse to end a realtionship. I do think it's true though.
There comes a point in some reationships where you fall out of love and simply love the person. You have history with them and they are special to you but you just are not in love with them any more.
I can say for myself that I am probably out of love and just love my bfriend. I am trying to change it back but it takes work and I am working on it .
How about you?
Are you in LOVE or just LOVE the person.
5 responses
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I have to say that after 12 years of marriage I am still madly in love with my husband. I will admit, I never thought I was capable of loving someone that much and it lasting that long, but I fall in love with this man over and over each day. Yes, I do have moments that I wonder why I am with him, especially on those days where he drives me crazy, but I still love him and I am in love with him. I will also tell you that this is both my husband's and my second marriage. We both got married young the first time around. I know know if that has something to do with why our marriage is so good...I think we work at it harder, or maybe we have a better line of communication, or maybe we are just older.....I really don't know what the secret is. I do know that we work.
@carrotman92 (446)
• United States
25 Jun 09
i am in love the person, i cant stand not being around her, i cant stand not seeing her, i cant stand that she is moving and i never get to see her again! i also cant stand that......well nevermind..... but i am in love with her, and that will never change.
