Cheated.........??

India
June 24, 2009 11:21pm CST
Are you single because you got cheated by some one and you no longer believe in love? Do you think when your partner cheats on you it means the end of your life and you vow yourself to never fall in love again?? Share your story.
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@airakumar (1553)
• India
25 Jun 09
Well, I am not be cheated first. Second, I don't think if someone is been cheated their life has no meaning. Life is full of love, sorrow and many more thing. One should not cling on one thing and end their life just for one thing.
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• India
26 Jun 09
I completely agree with you. Even i want to tell people who out there feel abandoned after being cheated that life never stops and I am very sure God will always choose the best soul mate for you. ;)
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• United States
3 Jul 09
I do not feel abandoned. I feel free of all the drama that went along with the cheating and betrayal.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
3 Jul 09
i think the word cheated does not suit the situation, u can use the word 'betrayed'..because when somebody cheats their pair, then ist termed as betrayal.. in my case im proud to be a single, im 19 and i dont have a girl friend, so i have not been cheated in any ways..i love my life.. happy to respond.. happy mylotting..
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• India
3 Jul 09
That is very good for you. I am happy you have not suffered any of the heart breaks. Thanx for replying. Happy Mylotting to you too.
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@shakil8 (407)
• India
1 Jul 09
when some one cheats you just kick him/her ......................dont have value for those who doesn't value you..........just go on and thank god that he saved you from that cheater & you will your soul mate soon...........gud luck take care
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• India
1 Jul 09
Your positive attitude is very inspiring. I hope everyone has a similar attitude like yours. God bless you and I hope you find your soul mate. :)
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@kryzell (921)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
I am single because I got cheated by a partner... and I am not ready to get into another relationship. My reason for not being ready, first is considering my fear of getting hurt again. I've been to a lot with my past relationships... which all ended due to trust and cheating issues. Secondly, I am a new mom, and I want to concentrate on being one for now. My baby needs me, and the last thing I want, is to jump into another relationship and divide my attention from my son.
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• India
1 Jul 09
Oh! that's sad. Even i got cheated and I don't think I can fall in love again. So what I do is diviate my attention to anything other than love. For ou i guess you should take care of your son but don't forget yourself too. You need some one in your life so just don't be in a rush but dnt just stop believeing in love. I wish you all the lyck in your life. Take Care!
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• India
25 Jun 09
in my view Aira is right yaar....i had a breakup in my life but its sort of friendly kind....means we both agree to that as there is no future in that relationship.....wel it depend on person to person...how u tak ur relation as...cheated i think is not a exact word for that......
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• India
26 Jun 09
That's really good that you mutualy agreed to end your relationship. But there are people out there who cheat on their mates and then abandon them. They completely make their mates depend on them and after leaving them they enjoy the way these people suffer. That really SICKS. I seriously think guys just get up and get a life. Show the person who cheated on you that you CAN and WILL live without them plus you'll be better of. :D
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• United States
3 Jul 09
I am single because my ex cheated on me while I was pregnant and got another girl pregnant. I do not think it is the end of life but have vowed to never fall in love again. Not because he cheated though. I'm just weird about my kids I guess and now that me and my ex aren't together we are best friends and I feel that they should only have one daddy and don't want any other men in their lives. I have a friend who has kids and she has had way too many guys in and out of their lives since she split with their dad. I don't want to do that to my kids so I have decided not to have anybody in their lives. Maybe when they get older I will change my way of thinking but right now I just dont want to add any more complications to their lives. Very good question by the way
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• India
3 Jul 09
Thanks for the comment. :) It's really good if you think so much about your kids. I know you will be a great mother. I hope you the very best in your life. And Do fall in love when your children get older, I mean don't just live in solitude because when you daughter grows up she'll have her own life and then you WILL need someone to spend your time with. Take Care!
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I am becoming single. Divorce will do that. Yes, he cheated and yes, I am angry about it. It is not the end of my life. (whispers: it might be the end of his) Love is a figment of your imagination. It is not real or tangible. You can't see it or touch it. So how do you know it exists at all??
• India
3 Jul 09
Oh! I am sorry to hear about your divorce but I am glad you are not the type who thinks itz end of your life or say love life. Well as far as how do I know that love exists is concerned I think you can feel it. It makes you happy, makes you feel wanted and secure. Though there are problems but at the end of the day you want to be with that someone special. :)