what should i do??

Well if you feel insecure and jealous then you should tell this to your bf directly and tell him not to meet with his ex. Then i think he will think about you and try to do things which you don't like (if he is loyal to you).

I think it is normal to be worried about an ex-girlfriend, especially if the family likes her. Who ended the relationship? You must not feel secure in the way your boyfriend treats you or you would be more confidant about the relationship. I think it probably would have been better to wait until you were married to get pregnant. Now you will have a baby and perhaps your bf will be there or he may not. All you can do is watch your boyfriend's actions. Is he home when he says he is going to be home. Does he disappear without explanation. Does he have her phone number in his cell phone. Check cell phone bills. If you are "afraid" in any way, trust your gut feeling and do not close yours eyes about it. I found out my ex was cheating by requesting a duplicate bill from the florist. Wow was that an eye opener. It even included the sentiments he wrote to the girl on the bill, I love you, etc. If you find out that the relationship has not ended, don't try to hold on to the guy. He would not be worth his weight in gold. Once a guy strays, pretty much he will always stray. Trust your gut feeling.

thats not right y is the ex there she needs her own life i think the only time that in ex should be around is it they were firend for a long time like more then 5 year and they decied to date and it didn't work out now they are back to friends to me thats the only time.

now i know that you've been in sorrow, oh! if i only knew that you have that jealous in your heart, i could have tell you that, don't feel like that be yourself, trust your b/f and let go those negative emotions that will pull you down!^_^ enjoy and happy mylotting!