Life's Not Fair

we should never surrender to life problems. I applaud your courage to fight what ever that goes against the grains in life.

thanks seems to me like have always had too as every thing I ever did was against alomost every thing my parenents did except we all did stay with our families and raised them.

Yes, no matter what troubles befall us, life must go on. You are right, stand up and fight. It is the path to success in life.

I know there are worse cases around and am thankful that I am not as bad as I thought I am. What kind of people will we be if we never have trouble? We learn courage when we face danger, we learn patience when we endure suffering all these are part of living.

We all encounter misfortune and unexpected circumstances in our life. Tolerance gives us the strength to come to terms with circumstances when chance sabotages our expectations, or when we face difficulties at work, calamities or diseases. We need to accept, to ascend and descend with the rhythm of life in order to walk this life.

I Am Sorry to Say You are Not Well Informed ................... You Are in A Life Of Illusion .............. Come To the real World Learn To accept Reality ...........................

To prashantlava, My dear, I am a human being that had experience a lot of painful things in life and I can never count it with my fingers because its too many that's why I know I'm living in the real world and not an illusion. We all suffered in different cases in life, but did we ever asked our selves why? For sure we did, but did we find the right answer for that matter? Maybe you can try to reflect back with life and the things that had happen and ask yourself once again why it happened. To admit it or not in many cases we always try to reason out with our own self only not to blame our self. Its hard to admit an own mistake that is why we tend to find fault to others. Reflect back and see that there's something that you had done reason for those things to happen. Is it like when your starving and do not have a bread on the table, you blame parents because they didn't buy any instead of going out and get one for yourself to ease the hunger? That's the point, we'd rather choose to stay at that one scenario in our life when we can rather choose to move forward and do something to make it better and when we fail on the first attempt we remain stagnant and say we just can't do it because were never skilled nor bless to do it. We only complain but did we ever did something before we even complain? We always say life is unfair and it ends just like that why? Because that's what is marked in our minds. We complain and tell our stories like hundreds of times already but have we ever realize how many years of that story had passed? Read well and you'll get what's the real message with this response.

I sure admire your conviction to prospect in life. As a obedient child we trust God for what ever He has planned for each of us.

Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, So nice of you for your encouraging and supporting views. May God bless you and have a good time.

Hi raj, to overcome these negative feelings, you have to bear in mind that there are a variety of human beings, each having his part to play. We must be aware that, unlike a drama in a theatre where there can be an understudy or substitute, in this unlimited drama of life, there is no other actor who can play our role as well as we do. Each individual has a rightful place and role in the drama of life.

[em]rasp[/em...as a seasoned lady, I have gone through much in life. No harm in sharing with others what life means to me and for othes who are yet to taste the bitter pills of life.

Clap, clap, clap. Wonderful zandi. This is why I appreciate you.

You have different approach to life problems. You have allowed the negative reactions to consume your thought which may give you the positive result in the end.

Hi Zandi! Yes we should always be optimistic and should feel that 'tomorrow would be better'.

I agree with you that crying does not solve the problems. Digging down, finding strength, and standing up to hardship can be one of the great rewards and joys of life. On a positive not, I've learned that, no matter what happens, however bad it seems today, life does go on and it will be better tomorrow.

Hi carolscash, life is hard and life is often unfair and we can expect trouble. But that doesn't mean we have to let it defeat us. That is maybe God's way of telling you that He has something much better for you. The only option for those who find life going crisscross is to be patient.

Inner strength and be patient in facing the problem.

Hi Cats, so how is your mum doing? My dad suffered brain stem stroke and organs failure and did not survive two years ago. It has been a great blow to my life as he was close to me and my life is never the same again with the loss of my father and my mentor. But obstacles in life will uncover things about ourselves that we never knew. Challenges make us stretch, they make us go beyond the norm.

Hi zandi, thank you for asking about my mom. She's very depressed because she used to be so independent and now she's not. She's right handed and it's mainly her right side that was affected. She can just barely write but it's almost unreadable. Her broken rib is healing but still grabs her at times but she is getting better all the way around but it's "oh so slow" process. Bless your heart! I'm so sorry to hear about your dad! We almost lost mom three times but luckily with us being there A LOT like we were, she got better treatment than she would have. I almost got arrested a few times because I wouldn't take the nurses or doctors crap so they found out in a hurry that I wasn't going to take any of it except the best of care because although it's not their mom and yes she's lived her life, she's MY mom and will get the best of treatment that she deserves! But all in all, it is what it is. But for you please accept my condolences on your dad and please know that he loved you so very much and is very proud of you!! I have no doubt that he's watching over you right this very moment!!

We do have that strong fighting spirit. Age is not a barrier to match forward and grab whatever opportunities that come our way. Our losing ways were over and we are learning how to win.

IF we don't win it sure want be from lack of trying.

We are bound to meet various happenings in life. We just pray that God protects us from all bad happenings that we may encounter in our daily existence.

Through life experiences, we built strength within us to fight any challenges that comes our way. Tears are friends to problems and will not solve it. You need your inner strength to face what ever problem there might be.

Inner strength and be patient in facing the problem

It must be that supernatural force from above that is giving you the new ray of hope. The man who puts God first will find God with him right up to the last.

I love ur comments,, and also I love___

What is life without struggle. Problems are simply challenges waiting for solutions to meet them. The two are partners.

That is life, we got to face it.

We need to be courageous to face the pitfalls in life. Cry when you need to, as it is a sure way of releasing stress and pain. Determine to choose the right pace: If you go too quickly you can catch up with misfortune, and if you go too slowly, misfortune can catch up with you. When you are both patient and persistent, you miss the wrong places and end up where you're supposed to be.

Most challenges in life come from not knowing ourselves and ignoring our true virtues.

life is, as the way we see it, not fair, then it is time to change your focus. As long as you focus on what you have lost, on what you don't have, nothing is impossible if we are positive in our outlook.

I really don't think so, just look around and you'll know what I mean.