Dating Younger Men - 5 Different Types You May Enjoy Dating
By bang323
@bang323 (102)
Philippines
June 27, 2009 9:37pm CST
Interested in dating younger men? It's a dating phenomenon that is rapidly growing. Today, 30% of women over 40 are dating younger men. Younger men can be more appealing for many obvious reasons but let's look at a few others:
He'll likely be:
• Less set in his ways
• Less controlling
• Toting less baggage
• More fun loving
• Chemistry laden
Since you're younger man may be climbing the corporate ladder himself or proving himself in his chosen profession, he'll likely be more supportive of your career and hectic schedule than a man your own age or older. And he'll probably be less demanding too.
Now some people may not think this is "normal" - older women dating younger men. If you are pursuing the cougar love life, I recommend finding a way to not let what others think bother you. Everybody's got an opinion right? However, you can't live your life to please anyone else if you want to be happy.
What do the younger men think about dating older women? Well, there are some who won't be interested in an older woman, some who don't date, and some who prefer younger women. In other words, their reaction is the same as the rest of the men in the dating pool. So don't worry about what the younger men think. There are enough who will be happy to meet and date you!
A several different types of guys will be open to dating a fabulous older woman like yourself. Keep these categories in mind as you observe their behavior when meeting and dating young men to discover which type is right for you.
1. Smart, Handsome and Making Something of Himself
This younger man will respect your experience and accomplishments. He may also want to learn from you and ask for your advice and input. This is often the case with younger women who date older men - they seek wisdom, knowledge and power. And that's something you've got too!
2. Adorable Social Climber
Since you are more established in the world, a younger guy might be hoping to take a ride up the social ladder with you. Not a bad thing as long as you are aware and don't mind. Keep those beautiful eyes open and enjoy the ride!
3. Avoiding the Baby Time Clock
This guy wants an easier relationship, unencumbered by the ticking bio-clock or the desire a woman has for children. He may be interested in a long-term relationship or just a fun fling. You'll have to observe his behavior and listen carefully to discover which is more likely.
4. Attractive and Seeking Funding
This younger man sees you as a Sugar Momma. If you've got the cash, it could be fun. Hey, women do this with older men all the time and the times "they are a-changing." Still nothing wrong with this as long as you don't mind footing the bill. There is a lot of power when you're in charge which might be right up your alley, and his too.
5. Sweet Young Thing (SYT)
He's handsome and sweet, thoughtful and considerate. But he wants you to make all the decisions. He's lacking in the maturity department, but he's so cute and entertaining you just don't care. Make hay while the sun shines and enjoy!
Many other types exists, but this give you a good idea of the men who you may find interested in the Cougar Game. Dating a younger man offers you a certain vibrancy and feeling of being alive, which is why so many older men want to date younger women. Now that women have a good deal of power, it makes sense that the tables have turned. Women want to try this approach to dating and love too! What's good for the gander is good for the goose - a new twist on an old saying.
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@countrygirl8808 (53)
• United States
30 Jun 09
I am in the "pre-dating" state with a guy two years younger than me. He told me "Sh1t, you know, age ain't nothin but a number." I think his realization of this is definitely a good sign. He doesn't seem as immature as you would assume, and we hit it off really well. I think dating younger is an excellent idea. :)
@substance (585)
• India
28 Jun 09
haha!! great tips on dating younger man. I have just make friends with a 2-year younger junior of mine and was feeling really embarrassed since i started developing some warm feelings for him, but after seeing this discussions maybe after all its okay, seeing that its done all over the world.
@KATRINKA (1624)
• United States
28 Jun 09
A year ago I wouldn't have considered dating a younger man. First of all, what could a younger guy possibly see in me? But here I am,in a relationship with a guy ten years younger than me. At first, I was resistant to having a romantic relationship with him. I was in a bad marriage for 17 years, and I have three teenagers, one who will be starting college this summer. We've had freqent discussions about marriage and having babies. He's never been married, nor does he have kids. Right now, he's fine with no marriage plans (though he has admitted to me that he hopes one day I'll change my mind and will want to get married). I've expressed my fears that one day, maybe in a couple years, he will want to have babies. For me, I think it would be too late. He is sweet and extremely handsome and thoughtful. For now, I'm enjoying having a a somewhat normal relationship with a guy who respects me and really loves me. For months, I was resistant to using the word, love, or even telling him that I loved him. Now it's so natural and I'm so in love with him. while the odds seem to be against us, I really think this will work out, and we're talking long-term plans. My friends tease me and call me a cougar, but that just sounds so predatory, and I'm not at all like that. He made the first move. I didn't set out to look for a younger man to date. I didn't even want to date. And now...here I am.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
28 Jun 09
My husband is younger than me. Neither of us has ever really looked at our relationship and thought, "Wow, there is an 8 year difference here". No, for us, it wasn't a matter of meeting out at a bar, dating, etc., etc. He knocked on my door and I just knew he was the one. Age has never been a concern for us.