What style of love do you prefer , to love or to be loved?

Happy to see your question here, I know you get confused about this for a long time, it's really hard to make choice about this, and the choice may affect your whole life. But I know you have already have your own answer, it's tough to make the decision, I believe you can make the right choice, and then move on.

First of all marriages are setup in heavens, if you believe so. then its not much of your choice. but if you really love some one then you should not waste any time and straight away tell your lover that you really love him/her, regardless of what he/she will think about. If its a true love chances are you will win one. even if he/she refuses there will be no burden on your heart and you will feel free to move on with your life. and if the second person that really loved you proposes you, you will really understand his/her feeling and will be a lot easier for you to make your choice. LiveLovelyLongLife