What will you prefer........Arrange marriage or Love marriage..........?????????

Of course i want a love marriage don't want to be pushed to an arrange marriage where in you are pushed to a situation you dont want...... i like love marriage cause even f there are risks involve at least no one has pushed me

i think love marriage is the best one to choose for every people but seeing around nowadays this is really seldom...in act people like more arrange marriage so..it depends from different goals that people pose to them selves and in their life too!!

If it is the custom of your people, then i would naturally say, that you may want to consider, sticking with the family tradition. As far as my understanding goes, arranged marriages have worked for centuries, because it is tradition, and the partners respect family tradition, and usually stay within the marriage. As for marriage for love. This is a good thing also. The only problem is, most people just jump into a marriage, and expect it to be all "honey and spice". It is not that way, nor will it ever be that way. Too many people rely on their feelings to get them to the altar, and then when something goes wrong, they want to bail and run.

i don't understand arranged marriages i think its a waste of love for those two people who could give their love to someone they want to. Fine if you want an arranged marriage, but its definitly not for me

It depends on what culture you came from, in my culture we don't have an arrange marriage so you can choose freely whom you gonna marry. For me it choose love marriage, so you will be happy in your entire marriage. No hurt feelings or no sadness. But some of the arrange marriage were successfull in marriage coz later on they develop love to each other. Cheers.

In my opinion, you should not approach this with a pre-determined mind set. if you happen to like someone, well and good. but, to just go around trying to go for a love marriage would be a bit naive. yes, it is definitely fanciful to fall in love and get married, but one needs to be realistic. not everybody is lucky in love.

I can't say anyone is bad. I know many people from 60-70's that have arranged marriage and know the love after marry. Also i know other amount of love marriages. Arranged marriage is a little "hard". You, many times, don't know the person but u can love him/her as one true love after a certain time. Sometimes this is cultural too and u accept it as the destiny or whatever. Love marriage is, for me, more complicate than arranged one. Many times u marry with someone you believe is the true love But he can think different. Also u can "stop" love him/her. For me arranged marriage can be the best solution if it is one cultural point. Well, i still don't like marriage. I prefer to be beside the person and love and she beside me. Marriage is just a symbolic thing. Sry the bad english. Regards, Scorpionok.

For me, love marriage is better than arranged marriage.. how could you marry someone whom you don't know personally? or a person you don't love at all? i don't know but it is not my cup of tea..