I'm Just Coming Out Of A Serious Anxiety Attack That Lasted 3 Days

Thanks gabs.... I'm doing better today now that they've came and gone today so I'm trying to continue with my me day.... me day disrupted but I'm getting back to it....

Thanks to all of you!! You're the best!! Thanks for supporting me through my personal HELL.... I couldn't have done it without you!! I'm so serious! Now I started another discussion telling what happened, didn't want to but with my parents coming over for a online test, it's created some anxiety for me but I'm so ready this time around, armed and dangerous!! lol

You keep looking out for #1 (yourself) and #2, (your husband) and then if you have to, let the other stuff slide some, Hell, your brothers can pick up some of the slack!

i agree w/all of you & cat knows i have told her what she needs to do. W emay have to make a trip, lol.

My grandson is 25 years old and my daughter will be 44 years old tomorrow. As I found out the hard way I am all I have to rely on. My daughter proved all she cared about was getting every last penny from me but never offering to help me when I needed it. Thank the Lord I am strong and my Faith is even stronger. I pray all works out well for you.

My grandson is 25 years old and my daughter will be 44 years old tomorrow. As I found out the hard way I am all I have to rely on. My daughter proved all she cared about was getting every last penny from me but never offering to help me when I needed it. Thank the Lord I am strong and my Faith is even stronger. I pray all works out well for you.

Gosh whiteheather, I do feel for you both!! But being that your grandson is young, he surely can find someone else to confide in, can't he? Why does it always have to be you? Can I ask how old he is? I agree, when it comes to your mental and physical health, you have to think of yourself first and I applaud you for doing that!!

I wish I could go to my doctor but he's a mouthy a-hole and would jump all over me for taking myself off of three medications that I don't need and frankly, I don't need to hear it for I'm so like a cannon, ready to explode! I wish I could change doctors but he's the only one who accepts my insurance in this area. The next closest one is something like 15 to 20 miles further.

crazydaisy, let me tell you something right now! Now you listen to me and hear me out, ok? YOU DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT and NEVER EVER let somebody else tell you any different!! Put it this way, right is right, wrong is wrong. There's no way around that. Another thing, two wrongs never made a thing right. THAT'S what I stand by and because of that, I'm the bad one, the intrusive one and so on and on! SO THE HELL WHAT!! I don't give a flying sh!t about what others think anymore!! I am all for the right and never ever for the wrong!! So if you helped someone, you HELPED someone!! You did NOT hinder at all!! You HELPED!! Even if it turned out to be the wrong thing to do in what you did, think this, IT WAS THE RIGHT THING AT THAT TIME! so therefore, it was never wrong to begin with so how can it be wrong now? IT'S NOT!! Because it was the right decision at that time!! Understand? I hope so because it's the truth and it's what my husband and I live by.

You know Opal, when hubby was in the Army and stationed in Texas and in Arkansas, we were away for 15 years. My parents and brothers lived near each other and do you think they came to help them one time? Shoot, my oldest brother may have every now and then to help dad but it was always something minor but no body helped mom. NOBODY. I believe that is why they moved to be closer to us for we didn't want to move back to our home town or even the state of Virginia because we didn't like it there at all so we opted to live in NC instead. My parents moved to get away from that town because it had overgrown so much that it was like living in the city anymore and I think they moved closer to us on purpose knowing full well that we'd take care of them should the time arise but I told them that they were too far from me to get to them easily if the time ever came and they were saying "Oh we'll be alright and bla bla bla" they would not listen and now look at what happened! ARG!! So for them to call my brothers for help is like talking to a brick wall because it won't happen! Besides that, they tell me their horror stories while telling my brothers a different story or not everything that's going on so when I tell my brothers or did tell them, they wouldn't believe me or they'd say that's the way they are bla bla bla.... I get no help no matter what I do!

Oh GG I hope you're feeling better really soon! A summer cold is not a good thing and so much harder to get rid of!! I wonder why that is but it is true so you take good care of yourself and rest more and more so you can beat it. Do you take vitamin C? It'll help you get over it faster if you do....

Thanks Cowgirl, I am enjoying it some although my parents came by today to use the computer but found the site and test that dad needed to take lasts 6 to 8 hours, he didn't want to do it and they left but the rest of the day I just kind of lounged around and really enjoyed it for a change! lol Tomorrow I hope to be able to swim in my pool for a little while and maybe even read a book....

I read that your folks were coming to your house to use the computer so your father could take that test. I know you said it was your day to just relax, so I'm sure your glad that they did not stay as long as that test! lol! Glad you had fun the rest of the day though, and was able to just lounge around. Tomorrow sounds like a plan! lol! We'd have to go to our Y! to use a pool, but lol not much of a pool person myself. Have fun reading your book!

when hubby was in the Army and stationed in Texas and in Arkansas, we were away for 15 years. My parents and brothers lived near each other and do you think they came to help them one time? Shoot, my oldest brother may have every now and then to help dad but it was always something minor but no body helped mom. NOBODY. I believe that is why they moved to be closer to us for we didn't want to move back to our home town or even the state of Virginia because we didn't like it there at all so we opted to live in NC instead. My parents moved to get away from that town because it had overgrown so much that it was like living in the city anymore and I think they moved closer to us on purpose knowing full well that we'd take care of them should the time arise but I told them that they were too far from me to get to them easily if the time ever came and they were saying "Oh we'll be alright and bla bla bla" they would not listen and now look at what happened! ARG!! So for them to call my brothers for help is like talking to a brick wall because it won't happen! Besides that, they tell me their awful stories while telling my brothers a different story or not the full story so when I tell my brothers or did tell them, they wouldn't believe me or they'd say that's the way they are bla bla bla.... I get no help no matter what I do!

I'M SORRY U HAVE SUCH A TIME. Know u wish u hadb't moved back or they has stayed where they were. If u weren't so close to them they couldn't dump on u all the time. They really should be ashamed to treat u the way they do. I told u been there done that. It will drive u nuts if u aren't careful.

Yeah, that's where my parents live. They really love it there. They're in an area where it's very secluded and so serene, almost too quiet at times. But gosh, that's awful about the crime!! But you know, there's crime everywhere you go. Heck, civil war probably fought on your land.... Don't get me wrong now, I do understand!! It does give one the hibbie jibbies when something like that is linked with something else. But you know, hubby and I were watching AMW a week or so ago and lo and behold! There was a guy on there from Blairs that hubby knew! He worked on our lawn mower and some of dad's things too! It was about a priest who killed his wife so she wouldn't see or know about the bills being behind and they were so far in debt. Pretty lame but pretty much any excuse is lame.

Gee, believe it or not, both my husband and I are the last in our families too. He just lost both his mom and step dad, the only dad he's known since he was a child, last year. His mom in May and his step dad on New Years Eve. As for me, I still have both of my parents and I'm the only daughter of three kids so I'm stuck with the "dirty" work per sae. My husband has four siblings so one of his sisters took care of his parents till they passed. It's not easy, not easy by a long shot but it can be made easier if they told my brothers the same story they tell me but they don't. My brothers won't help anyway even if they were told the same story. They're both just a-holes to a capital A!

Well.... I started another discussion today about this and it did work out in my favor after all. My parents came to use my computer for dad to take a test and it turned out to be a VERY long one so he decided not to take it and home they went! lol It was very stressful to have them here after dad's asinine ways Friday night and both of them getting into it with each other, sheesh! Took a hell of a toll on me!