Still love ex and can't get over her? What should you Do?

Hi rakeshbo3, I had to look at your pic really hard because you look just like you could be my younger brother. Anyhow assuming that you are who you say that you are, let me just say that I feel a lot of people may be in your position but perhaps they are afraid to speak up and make it known. Well I have been there myself and as a matter of fact, the one that I broke up with was very very dear to me. I broke things off many years ago over something silly. But now the one that I'm with doesn't want to act right and treat me like a queen so often I think about my ex. because he used to treat me very well. Anyhow as far as what you should do. First of all you could try to see if she is still available. If she is married then you should wish her well and tell her that you are hoping that the two of you can remain friends. But if she is single then you have all the green lights ahead of you. Which means try to see if she would want to get something started with you again. This is my best advice. I feel that life is too short for you to walk around thinking about someone and never acting on your hunch or your internal feelings. If you have several dreams about her at night. That is a really strong sign that you should probably try to do something about it.Wishing you all the best!Please keep in touch if you can and be sure to let me know how things go. BTW could you please add me as a friend? Thannx in advance, take care............ CC!

hi rakeshbo3! uhmmm... i have encountered this feeling months ago... i broke up with my ex boyfriend two years ago... and in that span of time, i fought hard in order for me to forget him... i had a boyfriend after him but in the end i still longed for the same guy... :( especially when i found out that his girlfriend is pregnant, i feel like my world have been crushed down into pieces... i regret so much because two years ago, i was the one who initiated the break up... i shouldn't let him go in the first place... right now, i'm happy with guy whom i really loved... :)

Hello rakeshb03 , I have found myself in this situation in the past. I kept my distance as a way to try to move on. Once I started feeling I could actually see him I didn't try to avoid the place he worked but I didn't purposely go into his work place just to see him.If there is no hope to be with the person try not to dwell on the past.There is no time limit of getting over a lost love, it just happens.