Yet Another Heartbreak

What ever you are going through i feel your pain girl... I gave up on men too then i met this wonderful guy who taught me to love again and then i realize he doesnt love me and i gave my purest love to this man and i did it in vain. So ya im all done with men, when i get out of the situation i am in i think imma join a convent and say forget about men completely.

Maybe you just haven't found the right person

You are not stupid at all. The best thing to do is to stop looking, and completely and totally ignore men for a while. I never dated, and I was not interested in finding a man. I met my husband, just as a friend in a writing group, and it went from there. My husband, on the other hand, had been divorced three times, and was completely sick and tired of marriage and relationships. Again, we met in the writing group as friends, no interest in dating. We fell in love from there naturally, not even trying that hard. Botton line is if you stop looking so hard and forget about men for a while, you may accidentally find a good one.

I remembered sometime ago reading in your post about the new person in your life. Now has your relationship with this new beau gone sour? It is better to get to know a person well before seriously committing to him. I am sure you are not fated to be with him and parting is the best way out. What leads to a happy relationship that will seal the love into the sacrament of marriage is right chemistry. There is no point of rushing for the sake of settling down and at the end of the day rushing to the divorce lawyers to get annulment. I would say you need to kiss a load of toads before you meet your prince charming. Do not surrender yet as every relationship you went through is only building a strong foundation for your future relationship. Improvise on your past mistakes and you will no doubt emerge a victor in the end. Can we say anything to those who love deeply yet who have not found their love, to whom love may bring loss and pain? Remember, God never closes a door upon any love, but to open it upon another.

"Love and get hurt, get hurt and learn, and learn to love again"

True love has no time frame. Sometimes it shows up later in life. You must always be open, for true love will show up when you least expect it. Realize that happiness comes from within. It is a choice to be made. Never count on others to make you happy. It doesn't work that way. When you decide to be happy, your happiness will attract others into your life. Isn't that happy, friendly, loving, kind man more attractive????? You will be as well. Your time will come when things are right. Until then,forcing things only makes a mess.

What is the thing that you should do is to learn from those mistakes and learn not to commit the same mistakes again from that experience. Failures are supposed to make you a stronger and better person that is if you will not allow yourself to be a victim of the circumstance. Never give up hope that someday the right guy would come in your life. Maybe this mistakes is just guiding you to the right person and letting you know that in learning what love is there are pits that you should be careful so that when you finally found your love you would be stronger and a better person.

Hi maple! Though you have not elaborated who has broken your heart this time and how did it happen, yet I feel that somebody just did not come upto your expectations and did not behave, the way you wanted him to be. Please remember one thing - 'No one is perfect in this world, everybody has got his/her own minus and plus points'. This includes you and me. Therefore, it will in the fitness of things, if you accept a peson with all his minus and plus points and just carry along with him. And please don't feel disappointed or disappointed, there is always a light at the end of tunnel and hopefully, you will get a man of your choice soon. My best wishes to you. Cheer up!

HEy dear, You being too too hard on yourself. Please relax, its the same story in everyones life. The women who let men trample over you get trampled. Nothing to get so upset about, I am being harsh i know that however this is life and you need to take baby steps to make it there, Just take a break take some time off and i am sure you will meet the right person. Please relax and dont be so hard on your self.

i do not know that what happen to you, but i know that you are now not happy and very plain in your soul, why not be happy with yourselves and make for yourselves,and by yourselves,why you are happy depend on the other man, why you get the happy by yourselves.i can get the unclearly that you are happy with your man, why you can be with the man, why do you had to impress you into yourselves not to do that, there are some things that you can not speak out, even this, you should be happy for yourselves, not to impress you to not what you want to, surely, that make you not be happy for ever. you know do what you are not ready to is very stupid.then it is for you a time to make a dicision for such this case. making a dicision as soon as possible you can.

Yet another heartbreak for the Iceman. kimi blew it again or i should say mclaren blew it again, and this time on home ground in germany...

i don't know what you went through or how you exactly feel but everyone has become heartbroken once or many times in their lives. it just depends on how you handle yourself and the situation. what i want to ask you is this: are you capable of being happy even without the companionship of a boyfriend? if yes, then that's good. why not take some time for yourself first and enjoy the single life? it could be a good thing for you. maybe you just need time to get to know yourself a little more. i mean, nobody is designed to live alone. man is a social creature. why not hang out with your friends and have fun, just to get your mind off "men" for a while. life's too wonderful to dwell on negative thoughts. look around you there are more things in life that are worthy of your attention. at the end of the day, it all goes down to how you look at and handle every situation that comes your way. just take it to experience. and maybe, just maybe, once you find yourself, someone good will eventually find you. if not, at least you have enjoyed yourself. smile. :)

let me tell you one thing. the day you stop looking thats when love will find you. its just that day when you really stop looking. not like ok i am going to tell myself to stop today. no one day you will just forget. then thats when destiny or your time will come. you can't want it. it will just happen. you just wont know when. i have a friend in the same situation. and i tell her the same thing. she is now 23 and has nobody. and she has had her heart broken so many times. it might be your approach to the guy. maybe you are picking the wrong kind of guys. itcan be so many things. just let yourself go with the flow. and dont get brain washed. keep on living and never stop giving your heart to the one you love no matter how many times you have been hurt in your life. you have to give it all to receive all. i hoped i helped you out. if you want to add me as a friend go ahead. i love helpin gpeople out. i can be there to listen to you if you like. bye maria

All I can say is that you will experience the problem all over again unless you will learn from your mistakes.

I think you are so sweet in nature wise and easily beleive others if some body is taking benifit of it then try to hide your emotionalfeelings from others so that they will not get chance to know you and they can not play with you and before choosing any man wait for right man