cheaters

Philippines
June 29, 2009 8:55pm CST
we recently knew that my friend is pregnant by her boyfriend. just yesterday when she went to her boyfriends house to tell him the news, she saw him with another woman in the room!!! is it proper to tell her boyfriend about their baby or better keep it to herself and never see him again?
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• United States
5 Jul 09
wow thats just horrible! sounds like a horror movie. like it was planned. i srry that this has happened to ur friend. she doesn't deserve that no women does. but i think the right thing to do would be the tell him. n i see how right now she might think the best thing might be to not tell him and to go her own way. but she has the think about the kid. does she think the kid better off without the father around. n not only that she might need help n money. a baby is exspensive. i would tell him no matter how big of a jerk he is. she should stand her ground n not get back with him. cause once a cheater always a cheater. he didn't care about her then.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
That is a shocker to see the one you fathering his child is being unfaithful. Telling him about his condition is another thing. I guess though he doesn't deserve to know I still think he has to know it. It may also be a good time to clear things up what she saw because it might just be an innocent friend visiting by or what. give him the benefit of the doubt about it and from there it is her to judge if he still trust him to be the father of her baby.
@roseyroser (1059)
• United States
30 Jun 09
Personally, I think she should tell him. It's his baby too. She should give him a chance to help out with the baby. If he doesn't do his part as a father, then it's not a good idea that he is in the child's life. I'm sorry to hear your friend is in this situation. I think it is very important to be fully protected so that you won't have a baby until you are with the right guy.