lesbian life not my fault what do i do?????????????????/

Being a lesbian is not a curse instead it's a matter of choice. Since other people around you are disagree to your girl to girl relationship, then it's up to the two of you to continue. Where you would be happy that's the point there. If you're happy with here then go on. So long as you don't do harm for others. If you feel guilty and the family of that girl want you to leave their daughter then at least you ask your girlfriend if she would be happy when the two of you will separate. Happiness, its yours and your girlfriends choice.

the header for this post is very misleading I stand for freedom of choosing ones life and to be as original as one has been made to be by the Almighty Creator Freedom of choice to live ones own life is one of the basic freedoms on the globe accepted by many a nation and being fought for this right of freedom in some other bigotted non understanding countries and societies of the world It is good that your society accepts this relationship of yours as you are so should you celeberate your freedom the FREE- DOM and be happy for this congrats for this But the big question is this! When you are free to choose your own freedom and live the ordained life as per your own inclinations and propensities and compulsions, created by the Almighty Creator, in the same way the others in the society are free to have their own freedom to accept you or not I fail to understand the stress in your mind for being acceptable? I would rather like to put it in different strain it is like this "ACCEPT IT THAT YOU ARE NOT ACCEPTED AND DO NOT EXPECT ACCEPTANCE FROM OTHERS BE AS YOU ARE AND BE HAPPY AS YOU ARE" Pity the understanding of those who do not acept the creation of the aAmighty!!!Try this trick and be at peace with yourself Why do you want that they should accept you?Forget it be as you are and allow others to be as they are,as they would undoubtedly be! and above all do not worry and get stressed you are too young to be in such sort of mental strain look it is expectation that leads to pain and it is demand of fulfiment of that expectation that leads to agony be as you are and do not ever expect others to accept you which they cannot because of their limited understanding This applies to all universal situations in life!!! So the onlly way to be happy is to be the way you are and not to expect any acceptance from others for your way of life!!! Lesbian or not that is not the question the question is to live your freedom and so you live and leave everything be as you are and be happy I am not giving yourself a sermon but simply am stating the vital truth of living ones own life happily Enjoy your lesbianism or what ever you call it it does not matter a long as it makes you Happy!! you have to do nothing but to accept this fact that it is not acceptable to the other party that's all be as naturral as you are I am from India where it is illegal to proclaim as you ahve done but still we had a pride parad on the last sunday demanding freedom of choice to live ones own life as created by god and repeal the laws of the dak ages making it ia crime in eyes of the law One has to fight for his freedom but with diginity and grace without expecting any reward or solace and has to feel happy in doing so I am neither but I am for your freedom of choice and for allowing one to live his or her own life in the manner he chooses to live or has been Created to live/and I am for recognition of this fact by other members of the community that it is immaterial to be what you are or all of the sorts it is material to impart dignity to the human existence in whatever form the Life has made them So be as you are and donot try to get the sympathies of any one for your acceptance,be as you are I shall repeat be as you are and do not do any thing else for any convincing or pesuation or ptying your self, because of closed minds of the members of the society who are not like you. They cannot understand you or your pains! but you shoud not prevail upon them to agree for your acceptance or other wise thanks for the boldness in bringing up this important topic which I accept and endorse with all the force at my command I am with you for your freedom to choose your life do not get acepted be unaceptible live on the edge,a razors edge for sharpaening your talents which god has given t you bruce them up and spruc up your thinking be as you are and let others be as they are! Live your life without impinging on the life of others and be happy you have to do nothing to be happy other than to change your mindset!! So do nothing be as you are do not accept or expect acceptance all the luck and happiness to you for being uniquely lesbian enjoy your lesbianism and be jubiliant that you are different!! unique thanks adiue!