Silence has it's own voice.

when my husband is silent, i know that i get him offended or he's mad at me or sometimes he have a problem...

I remember the silence when I told my husband that his mother had just passed away from cancer. We both sat in silence for the longest time. We both had tears in our eyes but were not exactly crying. My husband’s silence told of all the childhood memories, the good and bad the birthdays, the Christmases and the pain of the loss of the one person who always understood and cared for him. My husband said a lot with his silence.

Silence can convey a lot of things Bala. It can mean that there is something wrong that i've said. It can mean that i'm expected to say something more. It can mean that the person is busy or lost in thoughts. It can also mean that i'm talking too much and need to shut up.

Silence is the best eloquence. Silence from the people who are talkers could mean that they are REALLY, genuinely upset over somethings which have made them lost their smile and words. Silence from people who talk less could mean that they are relaxing. Just as I do when I want to relax or do some kind of "Air task' and do not want to be bothered by the earthly trifles around.

Hi bala, though short this post might be but you brought a lot of meaning to your words. You silenced me momentarily to think of what treasure is kept in a silent person's mind. The special power needed at the present time is the power of silence. Silence can change the entire world from disorder to peaceful. It can cool the fire of anger. Mental silence is not a balance state of mind or the silence of someone sulking, but rather the deep experience of comfort, joy, calm and peace. I always think when I don't hear words, voice from a friend or partner, he is switching to silent mode to energize his thoughts. Maybe he is relaxing his mind and enjoying moments of tranquility. Like you said silence has it's own voice. We need to create space for ourselves each day. When we can let the mind become still, we are able to look deep inside and see what we need to clean out.

In silence there is peace. Of course you have encountered situations when there are disagreements between your partner and you. Sometimes the best thing to do is just be silent and wait until things cool down. Usually there are things that you do not want to say and end up saying in the middle of anger. So the best thing to do would be just breath in and let silence take over. It will surely cool down the situation. So when there is an argument, I or my partner would just be silent. This means that we do not want the situation to flare up. We both understand and then later on, talk in a cool manner.

Well i have understood many things from my son and husband.With my son it may have been a case of my 'blah blah blah' ing some insignificant issue and as a result he has mentally switched off. With my husband it can be something where his opinion is different and there is some potential for difference of opinion where immediately I clarify that it was only a loud thinking and that I am not contemplating some form of definite action and that I am going on as usual. But , I am sensitive to their moods and so I normally am quite aware that I have started some unintersting/boring topic and I immediately stop.

I know that my wife doesn't want to talk to me at the moment because she doesn't want to say anything that would really hurt us both in the end. Silence is really necessary sometimes and I believe it's healthy to be silent once in a while. That's really what I'm trying to practice right now, when to keep silent when I need to be.

I always believe silence say many things. I myself take silence to convey many things. It may be with family or with friends. I take it to convey many things.

I can understand that they just want to be quiet or silent. I can also tell if something is wrong with them, just by watching their actions. I can also tell if they would like to talk to me but want me to speak first also.

Something is happening to them. They might be concern or they just want to avoid trouble.

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Yes, Silence is gold. What I would do is enjoy the silence for I like more silence than cacophony.

First,I think slience represents a lot of meanings.For example,a good friend of mine keep silent when I offend her or I do something that she can't tolerant.And my boyfriend sometimes stays silent while he is really a rowdy,because he takes silence as a way of expressing love to me,which I comsiderably enjoy.