Crazy ex husband?
By jules2653
@jules2653 (74)
United States
June 30, 2009 9:27pm CST
Do any of you have a crazy ex husband that is constantly trying to cause drama in your life? I do... When I don't answer the phone, it just gets worse because he knows how to push my buttons. He was verbally abusive and cheated on me. In fact, he is living with one of his women now. She happens to be his oldest daughter's mother. Long story.... After recently signing papers two months ago, he decides that the child support is too much. In fact, he is a week late on child support. He recently changed jobs. I won't allow the children around the other woman or her family because they have issues. It is even in the divorce decree but he ignores it. It's one thing after another. In my mind, I want to run but theres no where to go. Since, he changed jobs, I've been waiting for his new employer to garnish his wages but everything takes too long. I feel like I am still under his abuse. My dad brought up a good point today. If he gets a lawyer, everything about him will come out and he will look worse. He might even have to pay more. The decree states that he was to pay my parents back. When he walked out, he didn't give the children and I anything. I was left with a house payment and no money for food. I was a stay at home mom. Despite my education, it is hard trying to find a job. I am just so frustrated with him.
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@sallygeonzon (10)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Wow,the title really strucks me..hahaha..But for info im married 8 years and those years ive been a faithful wife and a mother.in that years i had suffered half of it because he had another woman,(but thankful they dont have any kid).I had almost kill myself after knowing,and then he stops seeing with her,but after a month here they go again.I had'nt mind them.No confrontation,no words from me.I spent most of my time with the kids and i leave him with what he is doing.And after months he reversed all,that i am the one who engage with another man and so on and so forth.How could it be when everybody knows that he is the one doing it.His work is affected and his relation to his own family.Everybody around him wont recognize him because he had those crazy alligation towards me.Now im hapy with my kids far from him.And all i know he is not totally happy with the woman he has now.
Hope it wont happen to others.And i just wish him a happy ending..and hope they would leave us alone.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Dec 09
hi jules I am so sorry for you and the mess your ex has left, hope it can get straightened out before C hristmas for your
sake and your childrens also. I was very lucky in that my husband never cheAted on me and we had a long and great marriage.we had our ups and downs as most people do but we survived. He passed away in 1991 so have been a widow for a long time. hope things will get better for you and your children. at least you have your dad as some family support. Merry christmas and a much better New year to you and your children, hugs from hatley.