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Okay so I just got off the phone with who is probably the love of my life. She has been feeling a little bit down lately and things seemed to be good, nothing out of the ordinary so i didn't understand the reason for this sadness. So she says she has recently been having an internal struggle regarding life. As a happy go lucky kinda guy I just don't cut it as the particular kinda person she sees herself being with. Understandable right? Everyone in every relationship goes throgouh something of the sort at one time or another. I asked her to describe the perfect guy for her. "My perfect companion would be neither boy nor girl, just a person. This person would be always there to comfort me when i'm down. They would always make me laugh, and never need anything from me. When I don't come home for 2 or 3 days they would think it was funny. When i want to be alone they will leave for a friends..." Now that does sound like the perfect companion I have to admnit....but where do their needs and wants come in? She told me the reason she is struggling with whether to continue the relationship or not comes down to if I can fulfil this image or not. I lvoe this girl to death. She is beautiful, smart, funny, a soccer star, and everything else I could ever want (ironically she actually enjoys cooking and doing laundry - not that I asked lol) but i know i can't change the person that i am in order to meet this dream role. We said good night an a good note and hung up. I feel her slipping away and can't help to share and say... HELP ME PLEASE!!