Actions of women

A kiss - My girlfriend and I.
United States
July 1, 2009 5:38am CST
Let the ladies respond to this one guys, but if you want to comment on their comments, shoot for it! Ladies, how do you let a man know that you are interested in him? How do you portray that you are available and want him to come up to you, or do you go to him? You can even share a story if it fits the subject!
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• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Hi there =D good discussion you have here.. and to answer your question, honestly i really don't know who initiates the first move between the man and the woman. it could be the guy first, but according to my Psychology professor, girls always make the first move for them to get noticed =D like when the girl always glances or looks at you, or when they become more attractive and always concern of their looks are just some of the signs that a girl likes you.. sometimes the girl initiates casual conversation or sometimes the girl may start it by talking to the guy "officially" and it's up for the guy to prolong the conversation. however, in my own experience, whenever i have a secret crush i'd rather keep it myself by not giving him any hint that he may figure out hehe =D currently, i have a secret crush at school and i know it's unintentional that i look at him sometimes though i already have a feeling he notices it.. if some or most girls portray their "best", i prefer to show my "worst" side so that i will know if the guy is really sincere.. well, i'd rather wait than settle for someone less or someone who'd just court me simply because i like him.. =D but honestly it's inevitable that i look at him most of the time that's why i'm really doing my best to resist looking at him haha =D i just want the guy who'd still like me whether i am attracted to him or not. =D usually girls want the guy to make the first move, not waiting for any hint of reciprocal feeling from the woman. that's what makes a real man, not being afraid of rejection.. =D
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• United States
1 Jul 09
Hi there, and you have quite conversation here... Very interesting! I can definitely see your point, and it is nice to have a guy that likes you regardless of how you feel for him, but does having the man make the first move make him a real man? I guess that would depend on what you consider a real man. Personally, I tend to get shy near women, but once an initiation is done, I'm all game. When I was younger, my friend and I would make a great team, he would initiate the conversation, and I would close it. So many fun times! Being that you're a bit younger, you like the idea of playing hard to get, but once you get older, if you haven't found your lover yet, you won't like playing hard to get so much because you will start to wonder if you will ever find the right one. I hope things work out for you and "your crush!" Thanks for posting and Happy Mylotting!
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@med889 (5941)
1 Jul 09
Though I am someone who likes to do thing directly however in this situation I prefer to make myself more visible to im in a sense that he comes to know that I am even single and if he wants he can propose me. Then when I will bring forward the bong of friendship I might jokingly tell him what I feel for him truely because if he is not interested to me then I will wish to continue the friendship I share with him.