Overcome weaknesses in the marriage
By hsofyan
@hsofyan (3446)
Jakarta, Indonesia
6 responses
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
7 Jul 09
We must strive to improve the most. If necessary with the help of a third party, such as parents, friends, psychologists, religious experts, etc..
Sometimes the advice of third parties more acceptable.
But, if no progress, we must accept the fact with the patient.
@Sangkala (238)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 09
i think we should continue to improve our self and also accept our partners weakness. some said to me that married also mean two people tryin to be live as one person. so when both of them continue to improve and accept others, they will became a strong person.
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@Sangkala (238)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 09
thank you.. that not mine though, some said to me.. :)
i married too, and based on my own experienced, that words isn't as easy as we say it. i found its really hard just to improved our self, decrease our weakness and became more acceptable by our partner. nothing to say about accepting our partners weakness that we didn't like.. fiuuhhh..
well, nice to meet you too new friend.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Jul 09
Hi hsofyan! Marriage can be tough sometimes. I think that if you've been trying to improve things that the two of you have proven that you really want it to work. I don't think either one of you should give up on improving. If the two of you are comfortable at the level you are at..acceptance is fine..but if you are still thinking there needs to be improvement then working toward it is best. Take care and good luck.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
6 Jul 09
Hi, in a marriage is very important to help each other, and never try to change your mate...after a while you will see that he or she is changed, and you don t like any more.
Maybe is better to try to help, if he is weak in something, you can be in other...so, understanding and love...and what is very important..COMMUNICATION.
Thanks for sharing..
