How many Mr. Right or Ms. Right for one person?
By MochaGirl
@MochaGirl (52)
Philippines
July 1, 2009 11:03am CST
Hi Readers!
It's been years since I've post in this site!
What I want to share or ask is, how many you guys think... Mr. Right or Ms. Right out there for one person?
The reason I asked this or raised this topic is because I am quite confuse right now. And this is the only site where I can share what I really feel.
I am married with 1 kid already. My marriage isn't going well at all as everybody thought it is. Sometimes I was thinking if he is really the right one for me since I've realized it already before I marry him. But now... I'm not happy at all. It is not what I am expecting.
I had an affair, but it seems can't find the real one... that's why that question hit my mind... :(
1 response
@vipersworld18 (117)
• United States
1 Jul 09
Personally, I don't believe in "the one." I believe you can make it work with anyone you so choose. You can have and show affection toward anyone, it's more or less who do you want to show it towards. The way I see it is, look at the person's worse aspects, the things that they do that make you wonder. Now, can you live with that for the rest of your life? Is it something you can look past or get over? Or maybe it doesn't even bother you at all? Or maybe you can't stand it? If you can get over it or look past it, then you can be with that person. If not, then don't even bother trying.
@vipersworld18 (117)
• United States
1 Jul 09
Hey, no problem. It's always easier to see things from the "outside." Usually when you are in the situation, feelings and other things cloud your mind and you can't think like you normally would. I can usually give the best advice to help others, but can't seem to follow my own advice.
@MochaGirl (52)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
you have a point! i am a good adviser myself, but I can't advice myself not even applied what I advice.. hahahaha
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