what do you think should Happen to your spouse when then dont take heed???/
By 16031981
@16031981 (449)
Jamaica
July 1, 2009 11:42am CST
my other half and i have been having problems because he wont listen....he got into trouble with the law a few times because of bad company... he stays out late when he should be home... i jus dont get it why are at times hard of hearing....i need your opinions...thank you
1 response
@OConnell87 (1042)
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1 Jul 09
I wouldn't really want to be with someone who gets in trouble with the law, because at some point in time you will prob be involved whether you like it or not and you will get in trouble your self, which i don't think is worth it. Staying out late means he isn't spending time with you to actually have a relationship, you should tell him that its not fair on you and that if he doesn't start acting like he is in a relationship then you will find someone who will. don't put up with someone like this your wasting your life otherwise
@JRoberson (82)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Exactly. I have had one of those relationships as well. OConnell87 couldn't have said it better. As much as you may THINk you love that person, if he can't change no good is going to come from it. When people live a certain way for so long it is very hard for them to change, so I wouldn't expect it. I was in a similar elationship for six years. That's six years that I can never get back again. His actions says that he doesn't appreciate you or your relationship, so just think does he deserve you? And do you want to keep dealing with the things that he is doing? Everytime he has trouble with the law you are effected as well.
