A Common Con Gone Wrong

United States
July 1, 2009 8:57pm CST
Here is my story (the short version): My mother died on June 3rd. I traveled from Georgia to Texas to be at her funeral. I was to stay at her home, which was also home to her husband of two years (my father died in 2001 of cancer). Upon arriving at my mother's home, I was made aware within minutes (by my mother's husband) that my husband was not welcome in the home. Apparently, it had something to do with an incident over Christmas TWO YEARS AGO that revolved around the subject of college football. Yeah, you heard that right. It IS that stupid. So, I am sitting in my dead mother's house, thinking, "I don't feel welcome. I don't feel comfortable. I am going to go through some of my mother's things now, so that I don't ever have to come back here again." So I gathered up some of her clothes, her costume jewelry, her sewing machine, and I took a couple of pieces of her luggage to pack it in to take it on the airplane back home. I took things that wree of sentimental value to me. Not much more than that. Long story short, not only did her husband kick me out on the day of her funeral without a reason why, but shortly after I left, he started calling family members, threatening to call the police if I didn't give the stuff back that I took! A little history on this guy that may be worthwhile to you: his own parents have disowned him, as well as two wives, and his children! He has no family or friends, and he won't tell anyone, not even my mother, what happened with that. It turns out that he had my mother brainwashed enough to trust him to "do the right thing," so she left him EVERYTHING in her will. Okay, so he threatened to call the police on me. Well, I called his bluff and I didn't fall for it. Flash forward to last week. The cops call me and tell me I need to give the stuff back. They say as long as I make an effort, he will tell the DA and it will likely be dropped. So I decide to send SOME of the stuff back. Mainly only the stuff I don't really care about. I send it C.O.D., mainly because I know he only married my mother for her money and that he is the cheapest son of a b!tch that ever lived. I really didn't think he'd pay for it. My instincts were correct, as he stormed into the police station today, irate that he had to pay over 100 dollars for a package of things that are "his." He even asked the cop if HE was going to pay for it because my mother's husband was NOT going to pay! It turns out that he paid for the package, and I'm sure he is finding out as we speak that not everything of my mother's that I took is there, but that there is no way he can win with this. After talking to the cops a couple of times, I realize that they are on my side and ready for this to be over. I have representatives of everything that I took in that box. The only thing that definitely is not there is the photo albums of my childhood, of which he is not a part. I'm sorry, but if they want to arrest me for not giving back a piece of my childhood, come get me. These are MINE. What do you think about this situation? I think it is pretty ridiculous.
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@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
2 Jul 09
I know that you have a right to your photos. I am sorry for this bad experience. I am sure that man will get his someday.
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• United States
2 Jul 09
That is what all of my family and friends keep saying. I hope karma comes back to bite him in the a$$ someday.
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@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
2 Jul 09
I am not sure how much he can get for what you send him back but you are right, it is not 100 bucks. I am sure you can keep your album. it is silly that this is happening and what I do not understand is how much jurisdiction does his local police have where you live for a domestic matter, even if he is not a blood relative, he is like a family member by marriage, does the DA have time for this kind of dispute?
• United States
2 Jul 09
What a butt head! I cant believe he would do that to the children of his wife. It sounds like you are correct...it is all about the money. You should totally hire a PI to dig up some dirt on him. Or you could do an internet search. Or you could try calling around some people with his last name and find out if they were related and what happened. If it is something illegal, you could get the last laugh when his butt gets thrown in jail. I am really sorry to hear that you have to deal with that on top of losing your mom and your dad before her. That must be so hard for you. Good luck and take care!
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• United States
2 Jul 09
Thanks. It is hard, but such is life. I know I will cope. It turns out that he refused the stuff, so I got it back today! I get to keep my mother's stuff, and I won't have a warrant out for my arrest for taking it. Things are looking up!
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
I really wonder why some people are very inconsiderate of other people's feelings. I'm sure you took those things for it has sentimental value to you. Can't he see that? Now, what will he do with the dresses? Will he wear it? Anyway, I'm sure you have have lots of good things about your mother, in your heart and in your memory, that her husband and even no one can never take. Those things are more valuable than what you returned back to Texas.
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