Hello my friends

I also have not been very active lately. I'm also not much of a discussion starter, because every time i come up with an idea, someone already started a discussion on it. I came along with a group of people, & of that group, it is only one other person (Gabs) & me who are at least semi-active here. I am also thinking that it's not trolling members of MyLot that are causing grief, but it's probably some rogue moderator or a staff member that's doing it. Last night, a friend, Ramoth, found that she was unable to log in, & it turned out that her account was canceled, & she was also at payout. I also have a friend, BethsMom24, who was suspended, & then canceled, & she came back as Beths_mom, & is now suspended for no apparent reason. I don't know if she had made payout with her original account. I also have a new friend, Dafter, who submitted her 22nd posting. That posting never made it, & then her 21 other posts just vanished. She ended up replying to one discussion about myLot being messed up, & that is the one post she now has. She has not been back since then. If I read an earlier response correctly, you probably know that SparkofInsanity was also suspended for no reason at all, but at least she was finally restored. All in all, I guess we're both frustrated for the same reasons.

Hey!You are a senior member here and you should have crossed all this much earlier.Mylot is a place where most of us try to remain polite.The hurting happen here and there and you need not give it much importance.Just ignore it and try to remain here and have fun as before.But if you are strong in your decision,so long.Cheers!

Hi there Sweetie I know what you are saying, I have been here a bit more lately as like you I miss my Friends here It has not been to bad so I am hoping that things will settle down Do not be a Stranger do you hear me I know we are in touch else where and that but you are missed here as well Big Hugs to you Love you

Good to hear from you again. I am sorry you've had a bad experience with myLot and your friends being hurt. Shouldn't happen on this kind of site. It's a fun place to be, not a place to bash people. When you feel comfortable enough to get involved again, I look forward to your posts. Take care, carolbee

Hi Katlady2! I have too have considered taking a break from here but for some reason I keep coming back! I receive notifications and I can’t resist it; I have to sign in and respond! There have been a few malicious instances and it is a shame but I refuse to abandon a site that I love because of some obnoxious troll or disgruntled member! Please don't stop dropping in even if it is only every now and again, we'll miss you!

You'll be missed Carryl! While you're gone, I hope that time treats you with love and kindness, and that you return with smiles in your heart.

Hope everything is Ok now.I was observing you are not here for long. Hope this time you can be active. best of luck.

It is startling to see how many people can get hurt through the internet. Real life is tough enough, yes? I hope you have a wonderful holiday, and don't be a stranger. : )

Hey PPP...I understand completely...I haven't been here much either...I pop in once and awhile to see what is going on....I don't get many notifications at all...not like I used to...so I wonder what everyone is doing.... Later PPP

Oh, we will miss you then. Pain is a part of life and if u see it and u dont like it, then you should ignore it. I know, u dont like to see your friends get hurt but it is just normal now. However, the way they open for us here cuz they need our help, at least something to share with right? I hope you will enjoy these time... but i am sure, I will miss your respond or something.

You've been MIA here? I hadn't noticed. LOL Seems I'm running into you here and there and everywhere anyway, so no worries about needing to be forgiven for being 'MIA'.......... Just keep popping up in my inbox for whatever reason and I'm a happy camper! LOL

Hello Katlady2, sorry but I hadn't noticed that you were missing. Anyhow I know there are a few people here that would like to start some junk but I usually try to avoid it whenever I happen to come across a person with a bad attitude. I usually just don't bother to reply to them. I wouldn't allow them to stop me if I had more friends here at mylot. As you know in real life the internet is probably the same. There are always a few bad apples in the bunch. It's what make you appreciate the good ones. So please don't let them stop you. I think that most of the people here are very fine and decent......... Happy mylot!

katlady - i amnew here and would like to say one thing. by opting out, you are actually serving the purpose of whosoever hurted you. and, this will encourage him/her to repeat this again on other members. so ,please stay back and beat his purpose. looking forward to continue seeing you...

I'm brand new here and your post is so sad! Don't let the haters get you down. Take the time you need and cheer up!

Now, why do you suppose we would want to remove you from our friends list, huh? We've all been there at some time or another; some of us have ridden the storm... me because I'm just plain stubborn, and I won't give in to this behaviour... and others have difficulty in coping. We're all different, and at least you've done what you feel is best for your sanity and have been kind enough to let us know of your decision. No worries, my friend... I would like to keep in touch, for sure, and will send you a PM. It's sad to see the way a lot of our friends have dwindled away at the hands of these sad people, but life goes on... we move on, and learn the lessons of life that make us strong and wise. Thank you for the energies and positive thoughts, which I return to you. I hope your spiritual growth will benefit from your decision and wish you all the happiness in the world, my friend. Brightest Blessings always. xx

Hi Carryl, It's so great to see you here! I want you to know, that I'm hardly here anymore either, and for the very reasons you've mentioned. At the beginning of this year, I came back from holidays, to find that some of my dearest friends on here had been deeply hurt, banned, etc., etc., through no fault of their own. This was too much for me to bear, along with the passing of our beloved kitty Anna Belle, pictured in my avatar. I haven't started a discussion in 'eons,' as my heart hasn't been in it. I 'may' have one more discussion in me soon, but I'll have to see how I feel about it. I'd love to have your e-mail, so I'll send you a PM now. Some of 'us' are keeping in touch via a different method, since all of this happened, so I can share the details with you once I have your e-mail. Big hugs

Aww...now come on....I would miss seeing that disappearing smiling pink kitty. I haven't been as active myself here but more due to my strained wrist injury that makes typing fun..NOT--and yikes I would NEVER remove you from my friends list so don't even think I would

Carryl, I have wondered where you went! Now I know why and do understand. Am I one of the people? I'm sorry if I am but my life is what it is, my life. It does suck in such a big way and I wish so much that I could change it for the better but my family won't let me. They seem to love drama where hubby and I can't stand it. If I could run away and feel good about doing it, I'd do it in a heartbeat! Trust me on that!! In any case, sorry you've left for you are very much missed!!

HI Katlady: I was thinking about you the other day wondering where that "pink kitty" that moves had gone too (G)!! I'm sorry to hear of so many friends being hurt and upset on here, I've no idea what happened but I hate it that you are gone; I would say don't let them stop you from doing something you enjoy, don't let them "win in another words.... Hugs to you and I hope you decide to come back again!!