over bearing mother...
By faithworster
@faithworster (69)
United States
July 2, 2009 10:38am CST
my name is rachel worster, faith worsters niece. i moved in with faith about 4 months ago. and my mother moved to buffalo with some guy she met online... well that didnt work out so she moved into our 2 bedroom apartment and is taking over everything... she has become a complete nuscence. i spend as much time at my boyfriends house in jamestown ny just to get away from her... i am 19 years old and she still trys to control my life, and everyone around her.. she has everyone completely stressed out and we want her gone.. my aunts girlfriend has gone completely insane because my mother tells my younger sibling to disrespect her.. and speaking of my younger siblings... when we lived in florida i pretty much raised them. they have both slipped up numerous of times and called me mom.. which i think is hilarious. i didnt have much of a childhood because of her, and me having to watch them all the time. and to top it all of my brother is the most disrespectful little brat and doesnt have to listen to anyone which is a bunch of bull crap.. my mother has driven a huge ice wedge between me and her.. her whole family cant stand her cuz she has to be in control of everything and everyone.....
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@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
2 Jul 09
First I would change my name on here and NEVER post your full name or the name of whom you live with on the world wide internet, there are lots of freaks out there that will track you down and stalk you.
As far as your mother goes, you allowed her to move back in with you. It is up to you to tell her that she is living under your roof and that you expect her to respect you if she can not then she needs to find a home of her own.
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Oh I am sorry your going through this, I know what that is like. I may be a mom now still I remember those days when my siblings called me mom at times. Pissed my mother to no end. Just be happy she isn't physically abusive like mine was.
Anyways I made sure that I wasn't like this with my children, it is so wrong to try and take control of everything around you, it just doesn't work.
I pray that someone can tell this woman that she needs to get her life, control her own life instead of everyone else's. Life isn't handed to you, you have to respect others to gain respect. Live and let live....
The love for your mom is still deep within you, this I do know, its just you do not like how she is, how she runs her life. In time you may be able to let her know this as I was able to once I was an adult in my 30's when I confronted mine. No matter how she reacted, it truely helped within me.
God Bless you for your patients for your mom.
