Are you optimistic or pessimistic? and how about your lover?
By catzzz
@catzzz (109)
Ireland
July 2, 2009 7:20pm CST
I can say I'm optimistic and my bf is pessimistic. he always think too much and in a negetive way. sometimes, I think it's hard and don't know how to do to make him happy... and sometimes his "negetive power" makes me unhappy too.
Do you guys have the same problem? or both of you are the same kind of person?
3 responses
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
3 Jul 09
I am like your bf....
Well i made her sad many times because of my problems and negative way of thinking. And now i am trying to get out of this way of thinking. Because being pessimistic won't do any good and it's better to think in a pessimistic way.
Well i really can't suggest you on anything since i am one of those types for who you are asking for solution. But one thing i can say is always stay beside him...it works for me when she is near me and i can get out of all my worries of the world...
Well i made her sad many times because of my problems and negative way of thinking. And now i am trying to get out of this way of thinking. Because being pessimistic won't do any good and it's better to think in a pessimistic way.
Well i really can't suggest you on anything since i am one of those types for who you are asking for solution. But one thing i can say is always stay beside him...it works for me when she is near me and i can get out of all my worries of the world...
@KOREILLY23 (279)
• United States
3 Jul 09
My boyfriend os always optimistic , he never worries about anything . he thinks that everything will work it self out . Most of the time I might add he is right and everything turns . I am a worrier ...so we sort of blance each other out . He never has to worry because i do enogh of that for the both of us . I try to work on it
@catzzz (109)
• Ireland
3 Jul 09
we are in opposition position. sometimes, it may be a good balance. but sometimes my bf try to stop me to do something becoz it's not safe enough...for example, if i want to quit my job, he will list out all the problem after I did so. But I just can't stand for the job. that times, i will be annoying and do what I think. fortunely, he will let me to choose by myself.
