I dislike people that are rude.

and nobody likes rude people! i think it happens not only to you but to other ladies as well...so if i were you, just ignore them and don't waste your time worrying about them... maybe you are really that pretty and attractive that's why they can't help themselves doing crap things just to get your attention...

Hi SandraLP. I'm no expert at these kinds of topics, but I'll share something to you: You have to start by feeling good about yourself. Not because you want others to see that you feel good, but because you love yourself enough (not in the conceited way), meaning you love everything about you, your strengths, flaws, skills etc. How you see yourself and feel about yourself will determine your actions, the aura you release, and how others see you. Next, don't let other people treat you like crap. First, you have to believe that your special, no one is crap. If people treat you that way, they have the problem, not you :) Know how to step up and fight for yourself, especially when you know your not doing anything wrong. And ya, I suggest you buy a book or see the video of The Secret :) Good luck to you and be happy!

happens to everyone I think. I don't think it's worth the energy that it takes to worry about it though. I used to be real shy and people would mistake my timid ways as snobby. Keep your head up and disregard it Sandra.