I am all alone...What to do?

India
July 3, 2009 12:50am CST
After the exams....Its this long summer holiday which has left me totally down. All was well before a month, everyone was good with me...but now why everyone's avoiding me... No one phones me except for the stupid ads, even when I try to call them they avoid me posing for some work. Once I saw one of my friends out of a coffee shop, I call him over the phone from opposite side of the street....he told me he was in the office for some loan work..and in next 5 mins he walks into the shop with a girl.... I do not know what to do all alone..being let down by friends... What should i do to make this loneliness disappear...?I dont know yet.... Anybody who could help....
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11 responses
Ruby722
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
4 Jul 09
Hi there .i can't understand why you said your friend avoiding you.Did you do something wrong ?it doesn't make any sense Could you explain that.And if you friend really do't want to stay with you.Pls don't be upset.We all have the alone time. Try to make something you like to do it and spend time do it best Like art pianting i don't know if you like it .But if you want to try you will find this wrold it's still beautiful
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
5 Jul 09
I don't know...Everything was fine when the college was out there...everything was normal when classes were running normally.But in the holidays suddenly everything changed....nobody phoned...even till today.... I do not know, I havent done anything to anybody....but still its like this... Well I hav ,made a new friend gr8 and fun loving....I think I will overcome this situation.... Thanks for your suggestion and your precious time... Keep in touch! ~Cheerio~
laurahen
@laurahen (596)
• Canada
3 Jul 09
I would go out and do some activities. Do something that involves the arts (people are able to bond through the arts) and meet people through that. You will have a connection and a method in which to connect. Meeting people this way creates relationships that can last for a life time.
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
5 Jul 09
Yeah you are correct, I hav already made a great friend by that... Thanks for your advice... Another way I think is to joke around, it reduces a great deal of pressure from our minds.... And hey.....Thanks for your suggestion...Keep in touch.... ~Cheerio~
imgrandma12
@imgrandma12 (677)
• United States
3 Jul 09
you need friends and I am here if you add me thats so sad my prayers are with you
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
5 Jul 09
Thanks for your concern mate.... ~Cheerio~
ilovepiesomuch
@ilovepiesomuch (172)
• India
3 Jul 09
You call such people friends? They arn't even worth calling friends!!! Your best mate will be the Internet, MyLot, You are at here. Spend your time here, discuss here, MAKE FRIENDS IN HERE. At least they don't avoid you! See if you make a friend on MyLot, After that post a discussion, There is 99% chance, that he will respond to it! Don't make such friends who don't care about you! Just ignore them, Don't help them if they don't help you... Oops, sorry said the wrong thing, Help others, but not people who just don't care! Happy MyLotting Mate, Make friends out here, Make money out here. I Love Pie So Much
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
5 Jul 09
Mate I think you are correct, mylot has given immense support at time of need... I am making friends out here too.... Thanks for your concern... ~Cheerio~
jojhane
@jojhane (36)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Hello Dante your feeling alone? why you should not pray and talk to God, go to church or spend sometimes with God? Dante your not alone god is with us always.. Everything in this world is not forever this is just an ordinary one. . Okey just pray to God
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
4 Jul 09
Thanx jojhane....4 ur concern! Your suggestion is gr8. And am praying to God to light my path and guide me in this dark hour... ~Cheerio~
mikol911
@mikol911 (50)
• United States
3 Jul 09
If you feel alone make a good cup of coffee and read a good book (like james Patterson) because books sometimes make you realize that your not the only one feeling alone and betrayed in life.
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
4 Jul 09
Yeah I hav that habit of reading novels, used to get totally immersed with them while reading Harry Potter series,Sherlock Holmes and others... Good Idea! ~Cheerio~
EliteUser
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
28 Sep 09
Hey, Don't worry, I am all alone too, you are not the only one. I have basically been all alone for my entire life, all I have ever had was a brother, but no true friends. Just try and be happy, listen to some music or something. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
bamrahkirti
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
3 Jul 09
So you have got fair weather friends,but do not worry. Try to join some hobby classes if you are a creative person by nature. If you are fond of reading,read some books or novels which may broaden your horizons. Enroll yourself for some short term courses which you want to do. Help your parents in their routines. I think these things can really make you busy.
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
4 Jul 09
I really feel sorry for my friends... About short term courses, I was thinking of doing one but was stuck due to some unwanted work at home.... And yes helping parents out in their routines was a superb suggestion.... It helped me a lot... And hey...Thanks.... ~Cheerio~
babshish
@babshish (1387)
• India
3 Jul 09
Hi Dear, sad to hear about that, but I guess you are at right place, here you will find lots of friends and can spend your time here on mylot. About your friends avoiding you, just igonre them if you are right at your place. I guess they do not deserve your friendsship. Think positive and try to make good friends and be with them when they need you. Time will change and you will surely not lonely, to start with sending you the firend's request please accept it . Happy myloting.
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
4 Jul 09
I dont know what mistakes have I done....But "whatever happens, happens with a reason and for good..." Yes mylot and all of you hav provided much support, I did not know what to do in such a depressed state... I am trying to read novels, and other interesting stuff... Thanks for your time buddy.... ~Cheerio~
jules67
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Once in a while, I do get lonely. Sometimes what I do is just sleep, or read something, or chat. It amazes me how you can build friendship with people over the net. Your friends maybe that busy that is why they cannot be with you. It really happens. But one thing that you can do best is to pray. It helps to ease the pain of loneliness when you pray.
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
4 Jul 09
A very realistic suggestion out there... Thanks and I do pray....but i will concentrate even more.... Thanks for ur time! I really appreciate yoour concern! ~Cheerio~
busky5
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
3 Jul 09
I don't care if i aren't wrong. You should care who sincere you, i will try to do everything that isn't boring such as write discussion with mylot, face book, msn, or go to shopping these to me out of time in a day.
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dante_off
@dante_off (607)
• India
4 Jul 09
Yeah you are probably correct..... But its quite difficult for me to just simply ignore them right away means I am unable to just erase the past... Well I will try my best... And Hey Thanks for your time... ~Cheerio~