Why Men love cars rather than their own Girl Friend???
By xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
China
July 3, 2009 2:21am CST
A tought came out in my mind and start wondering why men loves their automobile rather than their Girl Friend? Why is it that they courted their lady for months or years and when they got the answer "yes" they treated them not fare. Men spend much time fixing and dressing up his car rather spendig his time to his lady? Men loves to be with his buddy and talking bout the lates trends in cars? And the funny thing is some men are not good looking they feel "hot" when he is riding in his automobile.lol
17 responses
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
3 Jul 09
LOL Ive wondered the same thing, becuse some guys seem to be obsessed with there cars I mean cars are great, but a car cant cook, and a car cant hug you or kiss you cars are fun, but they shouldn't be more important then the company of your lady friend or wife my goodness haha.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
20 Jun 12
Maybe because cars don't demand time and attention? It won't talk, disagree with them and can push to the limit every time they want? We do understand that each of us has a passion , like us we love shopping and we ask them to company us but men? Nuh-uh!They want to be alone and give much time to their cars rather than their partner and it's unacceptable.
@crazynified (242)
• Malaysia
3 Jul 09
I guess they think of their cars as their first girlfriend, while the real girlfriend goes second..
@simonelee (2715)
• China
26 Sep 09
Do you think they are much in love with their car rather than their girlfriend? I mean, they spend more time beautifying their car rather than dating their partner. I often observed that men are much attracted to cars than their own girl. when men are in group it is okay to them to talk cars for the entire day than discussing stuff with their girlfriend. Are we boring sometimes? thanks for the response.
@crazynified (242)
• Malaysia
26 Sep 09
lol I don't think we are boring.
But I do think that cars have a special place in their hearts or something, another section included in what men love and what is important to them.
While they think girls are important in one way, they also think cars are important to them in another way.
Honestly, it can't be compared, that's what I think. Because girls and cars are two different things.
Or that's when you could actually start a silly fight with your boyfriend, because you begin comparing yourself with your boyfriend's beloved car in which is more important to them.
So just think of it this way: you are important, but none of the two has the upper hand of being more important.
@cassandralynn (1084)
• United States
4 Jul 09
Well I guess I'm lucky because my man doesn't talk about cars or sports!.. He's not into those things at all, but he still has other things that he would rather be spending time doing then to spend time with me. He's love's T.V...LOL.. But all I have to do is threaten to leave him and he starts to show me love..I've left him before because of him being more into T.V. then spending time with me, so he knows I'm serious!.. Also if he rather spend time doing other things you can also go out with your friends at night during the weekends to night clubs ( without your man) LOL.. I use to do this all the time when me and him were younger, I use to go clubbing without him, boy did he get mad!
@simonelee (2715)
• China
28 Sep 09
My partner is not fund of cars even if he owns a expensive car. My partner spend more time with me even if he is busy with his work, he try his very best to call me every now and then. Clubbing? Nu-uh! my partner is going to kill me.I'm not gonna give him a reason to leave me. Well, I did that before when I was still studying and my partner beg me to behave.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
28 Sep 09
Hey,
Well I am a male, but I am not that interested in cars. I am just going to buy a car that I like, but I am not going to spend too much time actually dressing it up, I would prefer to spend more time with my wife. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@simonelee (2715)
• China
28 Sep 09
Hi, EliteUser! Nice to know that your first priority is your family. I know someone who unfortunately close to me give much attention dressing his car rather than paying attention to the needs of his family. He spend more than his means and its rarely you can see him allowing other people to be his passenger(even if its emergency).Bad!
@JamieRose (168)
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
Haha. This is a good topic :) I think not all men love their cars rather than their own girl friends. Men who do these things are probably the not-so-mature ones, men who value playing and being more happy-go-lucky are their traits. But sometimes, probably these guys have fun with cars, just as much as how us girls love shopping :) its a stress reliever, something we love doing. But men prioritizing material things over their girl friends is another story. LOL
@simonelee (2715)
• China
5 Jul 09
During my college days, 90 percent of our school population are fund of cars.I guess your right, Maybe because i am surrounded by IMMATURES.lol
@gentlezee (41)
• Nigeria
28 Sep 09
the good thing about automobiles is that they don't disappoint. but girls are of the habit of keeping one waiting for some time to test him.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
29 Sep 09
Hmmm... kinda!Well, I think it's our assurance to feel how faithful the guy is. Sometimes we tend to keep them waiting to see how sincere they are. Well, guys are often impatience so girls often intentionally keep them waiting to test them.
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
3 Jul 09
What i think is men loves their automobiles as they listen to their drivers whatever they want as the gears and brakes will be with in their hands where as girls are not so. May be this the reason why they like cars and all rather than girls.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
5 Jul 09
It is because girls cannot hide their emotions, girls will say anything they want until they are relieve from their anger.lol
@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
I guess the only explanation there is they dont really love the lady in question. These are egocentric people who court women to show off as trophies. They spend more time with their cars because the cars don't talk back and comment on their iniquities.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
19 Jun 12
Partly agree with this. As i observed most men use their lady for show off and most men I've seen with nice cars are not really good looking so my thought is that they need hot wheels to attract women as their defense mechanism? Women who involve this kind of situation are also to be blame.
@orevro (715)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
i don't understand men at all, i've read another survey saying men remember their first car better than their first girlfriend.. one said that he can't remember his first girlfriend's name but he can remember his first car.. hmm maybe because they have more girlfriends than cars? lol i don't really know..
@simonelee (2715)
• China
4 Jul 09
uh-huh? really? maybe your right that they have more girlfriends.lol I just don't really understand them why they are acting that way. I often observed how they treated girl that way. Bad!
@shankarbaddi (785)
• India
3 Jul 09
hey a perfect topic to discuss on
Guy are mainly found of cars specially if they have a V6 engine or with turbo fitted
it drives us crazy cos the sound of the cars bring us alive rather than girl fren
cos even girls bring alive but at times cars are the best cos they spin and turn as we do and they are flexy...
A car with full of accessories like alloy wheels, music system with woofer with a 1000 watt amp
such gadgets will totally drive crazy....
and a passion to ride at the top speed which i touched upto 140km/hr
its my top speed guys tell me whats ur top speed...
@simonelee (2715)
• China
19 Jun 12
Obviously you're a car enthusiast. So, it doesn't mean you disregard women? Why you guys love dressing up your cars, that most of you are not contented with stock cars? Does it add more confidence? attract more ladies? Add points to your look?
@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Jul 09
Maybe the thing is, Men ride their cars and women ride also on to it but at the front ride. The important thing for most males maybe their automobiles because they are with it all the time while their girlfriends are not.
It is not applicable on my part because I don't have any wheels to drive on. I have no car so its up for them!
@simonelee (2715)
• China
26 Sep 09
(skeptic) I don't think so... men intentional want to be alone than bringing their girlfriend with them because often girls are demanding, always want their boyfriend's attention. I think that's one of the reason why they secretly meet with their buddy. Bad boys! When you already have a car, treat your girlfriend fairly, okay? Just don't mind her being demanding.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
26 Sep 09
because cars don't talk. cars don't tell that you are wrong, right? men don't like being dictated by their partner, men don't easily accept that sometimes they are making wrong decisions. Well... women talk a lot, i think that is one of the reasons that men would like to spend more time with their car rather than spending time with their girl that will only dictate them what to do for the entire day.
@KawaiiInu (143)
• Uruguay
4 Jul 09
I think it is just a man thing.
I know woman who love their shoes or bags more than their boyfriends.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
Come on..Its so easy why..Cars don't complain..ladies do...lolz..
You can ride with it anytime you want.
Dress it the way you want..
Spend much or less as you want..
Bring it to any place you want..
Cars can give a man what he want without any complain..
How about ladies?
Can you ride when you want?
dress it the way you want? A simple comment like our 8 ounce body is now in can..well get you in trouble..lolz
spend much or less as you want.. come on buy your car generics and you don't hear a thing..buy your girlfriend an imitation she will give you a mean look.
bring it to any place you want..I think its other way around..she will bring you any place she want..
.......
So why do man like his cars?
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
4 Jul 09
Hi there
That's ture,Around me some male friend.They own have a car and i think they do really care about the car more than they girlfriend.I think there is no reason. Because there is male nature.they protect their car don't want car be hurted and cleaned it regluar.And dress it beautiful.Men love car just like grils love dress up .it's make sense ?
@Hedwig (283)
• China
3 Jul 09
Yes, I have also noticed some men's obsession with cars,which transcends understanding, at least in my opinion. They seems to be confused about their most important thing in life,such as their work or family, and care so little about anything else than cars. Maybe oneday they will regret what they have done when they lose something that they used to ignore.
@reneezoso (392)
• India
3 Jul 09
i guess cars dont have feeling and u can push it too the limits... :P :D