Marriage Choice

I think it is better to know each other first in several years before enter into a marriage settlement. Courtship is the way to show your good intentions to lady that you want to be your lover but not to extent that after courtship is marriage. It is not bad if the woman, is your neighbor that whom you in how many years but that is girl you courted upon is known you for a days a week or a months, is a big questions. As study shows. Even the requirements to enter into a marriage is 18 and 21 years old. The most proper age is between 25 to 30, because science shows that child born in that age of spouse is intelligent.

I prefer getting married after having dated a person for a while because i want to know a person before I decide to settle down with him. I am from India and I know here mostly people get into arranged marriages but the trend is changing. About the exact age of getting married... umm.. I feel a gal should get married when she 23 - 28 years and a guy when he is 25 - 32. But the most important thing is that you should first settle in your careers beacuse marriage is a big decission and you definately want a good life for yourself and your kids. :D

I dont like the arranged marriage. There is nothing like true love and going through the whole wonderful experiance of true love. I dated my husband for one year before we got married. We are going on 9 years now. We are still in love. I was 19 and he was 18. I think young marriage can work. But you haft to marry out of true love not just because she or he talks you into it or because you are pregnant. We was pregnant but we was already planning our marriage date before that. We have a wonderfut realationship. One of the things that helps that is we never involve family or friends in our personel life. If we argue only us know about it. We never storm out of the house or sleep on the couch. We just set it out till we cool down and then talk normal to each other. But the biggest mistake all our friends has made that led to a short marriage is bringing mothers or friends into there personal life. But you know in some cultures arranged marriages work. But im happy that fate brought me and my husband together.

hmmmm lamp . . this one is a bit difficult . . .though I definitely would not want an arranged marriage .. a courtship for a few years sounds long .. maybe a courtship for a couple (like 2) is good . . as for what age . .that so varies from one person to another .. .some are more mature then others . .. and then again if you meet your "soulmate" it could be any age . . so i dont have a definite stand on this one . .i think it depends so much on the situation. . happy lotting to you (as I walk away still pondering this one

Hello Lampar, I believe there is no right age for marriage,its only the right time and the right person(right time means when you are prepared in all aspects) Also,I would personally prefer marrying someone after a good courtship and even better if the person has been in and out of relationships,cos then there is a certain level of maturity that you dont get in naive relationships. Thanks

we all suppose to marry once with the right one,right?so couple of months or years dating is the good thing for the two to know each other and i think,is gonna help for a long marriage.

Hello lampar , my personal opinion is dating/courtship for a few years before getting married. I met my first husband and dated for about 8 months before he told me "how about you picking out an engagemment ring and take your friend Kevin with you to help choose the ring". He then told me the price I could choose. It wasn't a proposal and that should have told me something.He didn't even go along with me to pick out a ring and had someone else do the work for him. I was engaged to him for 2 and 1/2 years before we eventually eloped. I was 21 when I got engaged and 24 when I married and 31 when I was divorced. I even almost remarried him but it never happened.But I think 25 years of age or older is a good age to marry.As for should it be for both sexes, depends on the person.

I prefer marrying someone I dated.I have to choose for myself and not let my parents choose for me.I want to find a lifelong partner that'll make me happy.in the long run,we are the one who'll spend our lives together.he is not going to spend the rest of his life with my parents.he should get to everything about me.

the right age for get a marry is 25 up... or if you satiety being chaste in life....