Inlove with two guys
By Ravinia
@Ravinia (290)
Jamaica
November 12, 2006 5:26pm CST
Is being inlove with two guys at the same time such a bad thing? Why?
6 responses
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
13 Nov 06
it happens. sometimes because being young, girls like boys don't know what they really want yet. but mostly, it's because everyone got different needs and somehow, they can't be fulfilled by just one person. one guy might be very loving and caring, while one might be very rich and generous. but no matter how you'd look at it, loving 2 guys in your life at the same time is "playing", which would hurt no one but you in the end. it's not bad, but it's not right. bottomline is, you gotta be fair.
@vhansen (2029)
• United States
12 Nov 06
No you can'tlove two people at the same time.Like,yes.But you'll always care about one more than the other and the least cared about will be the one that gets hurt.Seems to me the only reason you have two is because you aren't too sure of the relationship with which ever one you started seeing first.While you may truly care about the second one, come on and admit that he's really just back up in case the first one doesn't work out.That's all,sad as it is.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
12 Nov 06
Do they know about eachother? It can cause you a lot of stress.
@joycey (76)
• Australia
12 Nov 06
I don't think there is any single answer to this.
My views are: On one hand, if you are truely in love with some one how can you possibly be in love with another, and is it fair to both men?
On the other hand: You can't control your heart and even if you didn't want to be "in love" with both guys, you just can't stop it.