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I am the same as you, totally broken hearted at the moment. Everybody has their own story. Anyway, here is my own sad story: I am from the Philippines and I met a Belgian guy here in my country last November while he was on his business trip, he was here for 5 days. We spent some time together and even a trip out of town. When he had left, he was calling me around 2-3 am, he said that he has fallen in love with me and can't sleep without me at his side. Since I also like him a lot, we decided to be bf-gf by a long distance relationship. We would email each other everyday and chat every weekend nights. Send sms or call each other occassionally. We never had a fight before. He decided to come back here last May for a 3week vacation with me. During the first week he was here, things have changed. We had some fights and jealousy. Until he decided to travel alone for a vacation. I tried to give him some space regarding his personal and family problems. We spent two days together before he left my country. We had a lot of fun, we even got a massage for the two of by masseuses, went out for billiards and drinks. We even make love during the last days but he said that we can't email anymore and chat every weekends but he said he loves me dearly. I have decided to work on his country and found an employer lately. My bf (my ex-bf now) said that whether he loves me or not, I should take the opportunity and he said there is no place for him for a relationship at the moment. He said that last Monday, I really got pissed off and hurt with it, I didn't know that I don't have a bf anymore. I have declined the job offer already. He got angry with that. He tried to call me that day but I didn't answer his call as I was crying a lot. The next day, I was taking care of my sister who has flu-like symptoms and it was only last Friday that he she was confirmed negative from h1n1 flu virus. I saw that he is on the dating website again, he added photos and looking for some girls. It really hurt me a lot about it but he said yesterday that he misses me and cares a lot about me, will always love me, etc., etc. I don't want to believe anything that he says now as its sounds too good to be true. I think I wasted my time, effort and evrything just for him. There is nothing I can do as I can't push myslef to him but accept the reality thats its over. I need to move on...

well I'm sorry you went through a heart break. Its not pleasant but I think every human being has to experience this somehow. Anyway here is my story. Six years ago I was in a loving relationship with a gorgeous Latino guy. We had a lovely four bedroom house and life was a bliss. He was a ladies man and although he cheated on me several times, my love for him was strong so I was able to forgive him. But one day he crossed the line... My sister was having a little accommodation issues so I invited her to stay with us until she sorts herself out. Little did I know that it will be the biggest mistake of my life. Anyway one day I got the flu and so I left work early to go and rest at home. I walked into my house, into my bedroom and guess what I found.. My guy and my sister getting it on!!! My sister had stayed with us for about 6 months and they had been having an affair for 5 of those 6 months.. Well I did what anyone else did.. I packed my bags and moved to another country..haven't seen him since and only saw my sister last year as we patched up for the sake of our mother... So I hope that qualifies as a sad story

Your story is not that worst than mine I had illness that it is difficult to cure. It is still puzzled for me where I or how did I get this. I hate having this and I don't know if my life would be normal again. I'm very depressed for years when I found it out. I pray to God that I could live longer. The sad thing about it my family doesn't care about it or they don't have a concern to my situation. I'm unemployed and I don't have a life. I'm losing hope and I want my happy life back.

My story is the saddest of them all, because I can't get a girlfriend, I don't know why but, atleast I can say I've tried, but I try not to give up easly, maybe I will have luck in the future, I'm not worse or better than the others so I think I can do it too... ~Happy Posting~