Does ALL men cheat??????????
By JRoberson
@JRoberson (82)
United States
July 3, 2009 7:50pm CST
I have young and older women in my family that has tried to convince me that all men cheat. I have been cheated on before but I personally don't think that all men cheat. I think that it depends on the guy, I beleive that some are cheaters and some aren't. I am married now and I strongly feel that my husband doesn't. I think it's a stero type that doesn't give the good guys out there credit. Anyways what do you all think (men and women)?????????????
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5 responses
@justinxwebb (24)
• United States
6 Jul 09
Well, maybe im different, im too sensative when it comes to relationships. I could never cheat, even if i looked at another girl, the girl that i have is always enough for me. My most recent relationship just ended, and.. in the end i think she flirted with other guys and i think thats enough to say she cheated on me. But i could never do it i consider the girls feelings with everything i do. I ask myself, if she did this, would i get jealous, if i think so, i dont do it.
@JRoberson (82)
• United States
6 Jul 09
That is something that I keep in mind too, what ever I wouldn't like done to me I wouldn't do to anyone else. I also feel like the person that I am with is enough, so there isn't even aneed for me to look. If a person was not enough I would not get serious with that person. Thanks for your response.
@JRoberson (82)
• United States
6 Jul 09
I agree he shouldn't but sometimes a cheater is just a cheater. Thanks for your response.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
4 Jul 09
Not all men cheat. However I think there are more that do than there used to be.
I am not sure why that is. Perhaps opportunity...or it could be they have no moral objection to having a little fun on the side.
More than ever before however women are doing the same thing. Women used to just hang in there when they were not happy and just put up with it. Not so much any more I think.
With both sexes however it is primarily because of the thrill of someone new. And if the opportunity is there it would be hard for them to pass up.
But I am convinced that not all men, or women, cheat. The men that truly love their wife's find all the excitement they need with them so never need to find someone else.
If you feel strongly that your husband does not cheat then you are more than likely right. There are always indications that something is not right and sooner or later it will become obvious if you look. If those signs are not there for you then you have one of those good guys who loves his wife.
@JRoberson (82)
• United States
6 Jul 09
That is what I said. Women can pick up on the signs if their man is cheating or not but alot of the time they choose to ignore the signs. The women that have been telling me that all men cheat says that it doesn't matter if there are signs that he is cheating or not because they all do. To me that is the same as saying since your a women your a bad driver, which is not true, but statements like that doesn't give an individual credit where credit is due. Thanks for the response.
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
4 Jul 09
I's say most men do, but not all. i know my boyfriend would rather cut off his ... then cheat on me. i'v been cheated on too, and revenge was sweet. got to mess with their mind after that, as well as their personal life and reputation. I'm mean, i know, but they got what they asked for.
@JRoberson (82)
• United States
4 Jul 09
LOL, yup you have to do something to them esp if your going to try to stay with that person and work it out.
@Wink24 (167)
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
Hello..
i think not all men cheat but for sure there are some.
At some instance, we can't blame them if they do cheat because sometimes, the problem is with the girl or sometimes the girl can't give the love that a man needs that's why they're trying to find it to another girl, it's not really an excuse for a man to cheat but they're only human too, and i think some men has the weakness in girls, they got easily tempted to girls.
Plus the partner's fault in not fulfilling her part as a partner, That's why they can't blame some men to cheat.
But still it depends on the guy, if he really loves his girl, though he found the girl boring or not doing her part, he will rather talk to her about that than to cheat.
Happy mylotting
@JRoberson (82)
• United States
6 Jul 09
Sometimes the girl can be doing all she can and a man will still cheat. You are right though about the guy looking in other places for what he is missing at home but it works both ways. If a women is not getting her needs met she will look else where too. If that is the case then they should talk and see if they can work it out and if not they should part and go seperate ways before the cheating starts. Thank you for your response.
