From bad to god to worse.

I'm a friend of your Stepdad's to start and nice to meet you! When you are young, you speak first before you think so words you don't want to say come out and then you feel bad for saying them. Its something we all went through as youngsters..Now its up to you to stop and think and figure out why you do this and if you really want to change..Change is good and harder then just doing the same old thing, so it will be tough, but if you really want to be different then only you can do that..write the things down that you want to change and practise changing one thing at a time..soon it will be easier and you will find you aren't the mean person you think you are now and winning or losing won't matter..what will matter is how you feel about yourself and realising you are a sweet and kind young Lady who is just growing up. huggs and love Rosekitty

You need to read some of my writings, the stresses that break you will also strengthen you. Of this I know... The first rule of thumb is to keep communicating but learn to communicate in a way that will not escalate a bad situation. Yes, it is all part of learning to be a grown up.

It's just your age, dear. I know you probably don't think that's true, but it really is. As you get a little older your brain will start to override your mouth. If not, you are going to get into a lot of fights where you will lose and so will the person you're fighting with as you'll both say nasty things you don't mean. Either that or you will get your butt kicked a lot and you certainly don't want that :(