Are you a GOOD LISTENER or a GOOD ADVISER?

i guess i fall in the category named good listeners.i am a tender girl,my friends always say so.when my friends turn to me,i will listen to them,without interrupting to often,and make him or her know that i am listening very carefully.and i try to understand .i give advice ,too.not a lot.only to people who think similarly with me.

I think I am a good listener instead of a good advisor. Because for me, I am not so good and speaking and giving advice or something like that, and what I like to do is listen to what others said and really get a lot from that. Sometimes, other people need you to listen instead of just speaking and speaking.

I'm a good listener but a bad adviser. I don't know how to comfort people, but I'm more toward action. If I see something wrong I tend not to talk about it and more to act towards it. But I can be a listener, and will rarely interrupt if somebody ranting to me or just let it go her feelings. Hmm, I'm envy for those who has the ability to talk rightly at the right time. I don't have that ability.

I think I am more of a listener. I don't like to give advice unless I am asked. I think that sometimes people are just looking to get things off their chest more than they are advice. Take care friend.

I can be both a Good Listener and a Good Adviser depending on the situation or problems that my friends have. I really enjoy giving advise to them since I feel happy when I can make them happy.

Hello.. i think it's both?. some of my friends says that i'm a good adviser, while on my opinion, i think i'm a good listener, i think it's easy to be a good adviser because your mind is clear at that moment because you're not experiencing it now while your advising it to your friends, or it could be just you know the right from wrong. But sometimes, when you are now on the same situation, your confused on what to do though you know the right thing to do, maybe it's because what your brain tells to you is different from what your heart tells. About being a good listener, i think if you can't advice well, then atleast be a good listener and just stay with him/her, sometimes, prescence is enough to let others know that you do care. Happy mylotting

I am a good listen.I don't give my advice in free.I like to listen good advices of others.

Well i can say that im a good listener. When my friends started to talk about problems im always attentive to listen to them, and sometimes when they asks me an advice then that's the time that i can give my very best advice hehehe. Cheers.

Hi friend, I am trying to be a good listener and I am surely a good adviser as I am associated with a counselling cell.

I'm a good listener, and I hope to know my new friends well by this way-listening.I don't like to talk with others actively,and I don't know how to chat with strangers, especially people who are much younger or much older than me.