study and love???

Even I don't think both can be handelled well. Because somewhere oue studies are affected. I think a person should get into a serious relationship only after you have completed your grade 12 and are set for a clear line ahead. When you are in school you need to think about your future and there is no point ruining it by getting into serious love affairs. I mean you should have friends, hang out together but nothing serious, first set yourself in life and then take any decision abt any kind of relationship.

thats the most difficult multi tasking.i mean a boy may impress a gal by his academics.wat if the boy is not that good in academics.well if a gal come into his life at this point thats gonna be really disastrous .but it depends upon the guy or gal anyway.they should have self control and one should not be pestering the other always .and in short with great time management you can succeed.but dont ever compromise the your studies.

I do think so. I think if you cannot take a balance between study and love, it maybe quite difficult for you to do so. For example, you spent whole with your boyfriend to go shopping, to travel, or somethig like that, and spent little time on study, then it will turn out bad for you. And instead, if you learn to make some schedule for yourself, not let love take you too much time, and remember to study every day, then it is possible.

Hi.... Accoording to me all depends on oneself.Love just happens,no force takes place....it just happens..................! And it never sees are we a student or......Ya,its true somewhere that love and studies cannot be handled simultaneously,because if we get more into love,our studies get affected a lot...and if in case we hav a fight we the person we r in love....we just ignore our studies....this is natural too.I am saying this because it has actually happened with me,but now everything is fine. But if i take my case,i dnt accept this that they cannoy be handled together.As because,the one whom i love is very sweet but very strict in the case of studies,and if i dnt study,i knw he'll scold me.He only says that its fine we love each other,but your studies are more important to u and to me too.And the one who loves will wait for you......! I think they can be handled together,if you are true and you know how to handle your life.Because we can't just roam around saying that i am student and i am not supposed to get into 'love chakkar'.......it will just come when it has to,and you cant ignore it too,just as the uncalled guest......!

Hello.. I think, it depends on the two person involved in the relationship, if they know their real goal and focus to it (which is to finish studies) then i think it's okay to be committed since they know their real goal so though they're on a relationship, they still have their limitations among themselves and will not do anything wrong. But, if both of them are very intimate and can't control their so much love to each other, then better not to be committed, because if they still do and that's the case, then there might be a possibility that something will be done that they might regret later on. So to conclude, it really depends on the person. Happy mylotting.

according to me love and studies both can be handled by a student.students can do anything in this world.we have to take it as a life challenge and tries to win those challenges. so studies and love can be handled easily..

No. I do not think both can go simultaneously specially when you are too young to decide about your future goals. I have one friend who was in love with a girl in 12th grade. It was long distance relationship. That girl disappeared suddenly because she was in 10th. That girl stopped contact with this guy and got good marks whereas that guy got fail in 12th because he was worried about that girl and their relationship.

Yes, I personally really do think that it is possible to be able to handle a relationship, while still at school. It's not always easy, especially since I'm a drama major and am often in rehearsal. However, my fiance and I are still managing it. As I've said, it's not always easy. We've seen our share of problems, but we've managed to get through them. However, I don't think that it's necessarily for everyone. Managing a relationship and school is possible for some, but not necessarily for others.

Well it really depends on both the individuals. Some can really find a way to make it work and some just goes out of hand. When both individuals goals are the same or almost alike, then its easy to influence each other to work towards the goals because the compromises involved are similar. Which in this case, the goal is concentrating on studies. But for first timers who are not sure they can cope a relationship with studies, I say go for it. It's one of the ways to further understand oneself. You can have a general idea about yourself but until you experience it then you know how far you will go and handle yourself. If it did not go well, then you are not responsible enough for it yet. Afterall, love is a beautiful experience of life, one can't keep away from it too long just because you "think" you can't handle both. You only know once you try.

Yes, I have a friend who have made the relationship successful. After 10 years of being married with 2 kids. I may say that they have nurture a very strong relationship. But in contrary, I have also know someone who didn't make it through the storm, they had a kid and both party are now married to other people. I think my answer in here is it depends on the personality of each person. Happy myloting

it's possible if done right. in fact i know friends who are doing well in their studies because of love..