Is There A Hole in the Lot
By saw2207
@saw2207 (1359)
United States
July 4, 2009 8:30am CST
Does it seem that in the last few days there have been way too many people blocking the way for positive and meaningful discussions here on the lot?
Seeing so much of it made me remember a poem I once read by Portia Nelson called
"Autobiography in Five Short Chapters"
1-I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk
I fall in.
I am lost ... I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes me forever to find a way out.
2-I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place
but, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.
3-I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in ... it's a habit.
my eyes are open
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.
4-I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.
5-I walk down another street.
I think this is something for everyone on this great "Lot" of ours to think about today . .and when coming across those meaningless and mean discussions . .you might just pass on by instead of feeding into them. . .
Happy MyLotting to All
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8 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
4 Jul 09
Brilliant Saw!
That should be some sort of 'highway code' for travelling here on the Lot!
It makes such sense and would avoid so many problems and agravation and in some cases even tears.
Have fun my friend! Hugggggggssss
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
4 Jul 09
talk about brilliant di di . . your analogy of a highway is just what this lot needs. . and since my first day traveling here on this lot . you have been my guide and my map . I wish I could rename this discussion to:
The Highway to Mylot, Where 1 can Find Fun, Friends and Laughter . .
and you never cease to amaze me
and you always you bring a smile to my face
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
5 Jul 09
I was lucky the day I landed here Saw.
I am also so lucky that I also seem to find the discussions by the new users right when they arrive and I have the pleasure of accompanying them on their travels and sharing in the fun they create
Hugsss my friend!
If myLot also sent notifiers it would make Lotting even easier!
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
5 Jul 09
nice one. sounds like my life.
and I am walking down a different path now. long story.
but still a great poem and thanks for sharing it.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
7 Jul 09
it is a happier path and the right one too
there are sacrifices but it happens no matter which path I take anyway
thanks again, very nice poem
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
5 Jul 09
hi LittleMel . .
Glad you liked the poem . .. hope whatever path you are on . it is a happy one. . at least you are walking it . . we always have to count our blessings . .and that is something I try to always remember . .
Hope you are having a great day
and Happy Mylotting to you!
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@Darkwing (21583)
•
8 Jul 09
That's a brilliant thought my friend, and I only wish more people would take this calm, serene action, instead of having to shout their angry words from discussions. It only gets them deleted or banned so best to avoid those holes that hurt you if you fall in.
Brightest Blessings, and happy mylotting to you too, my friend.
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
8 Jul 09
hey there Darkwing . . I guess my first few weeks I didnt really see those obnoxious people . ..so when I was "deflowered" here I was a bit distraught at first
but as this lot has so many wonderful and valuable people I know I have been lucky to run into quite a few and am proud and honored to have them as friends. .and you no doubt are one of them
sending you much love and light
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
5 Jul 09
There are indeed a lot of owls on here
it's just that some days they seem to be over-shadowe by the sparrows!
Great response! Short and so apt!
@lampar (7584)
• United States
4 Jul 09
My friend, I haven't notice any thing unusual in the last few days of Mylot, it happened only in Yourlot i assume. lol!! Even if your suspicion is real, it is probably some trolls are becoming active again after hibernated for a while or got banned for a short period of time by your Admin; nothing to worry , they will soon become the thing of the past when no one pay attention to them, Yourlot will be backed to normal operation again in no time.
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
6 Jul 09
i think maybe that one is gone now .. or at least one can hope . . but from what i hear around the lot. . it wont be the last one or the last time we have to see that stuff.. best as the good ones around here say . . just ignore and move on to something worthwhile. .
happy monday to you
@Philbo (578)
• Canada
6 Jul 09
You can see by my rating that I fell into the hole a few times myself. I've been on the net long enough to know better too. Great poem. Very apt. I try to avoid the trolls and won't dignify most of the schtuff with a response. Thankfully there are a lot of good lotters around to make this site worth visiting regularly.
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
5 Jul 09
mssnow . .
i know what you mean . .and sometimes the meaningless ones are fun. . but there is still a level of meaningless that I can take . . . . but it is all fun . .and sometimes the best time i have here when i stumble across something where i learn something new. . . . there are just some days where I think I am having one too many senior moments so I like to try to learn something new everyday. . i think it is a great way to make sure the dementia never sets in.
thanks for sharing your thoughts,
happy lotting to you
@iwinagain (545)
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5 Jul 09
Way too many as in how much? What do you mean by meaningful? I don't just respond to any posts, I respond to those that interest me. I think it's better to have a variety of discussions, some that are just for fun and some that are useful and meaningful. I know that some people are tired from work when they get home and just want to talk about meaningless stuff, it's there way of relieving their stress from work and relaxing. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. But people who only posting like one or a couple of words in their posts really should just get away from mylot and go somewhere else, because they are contributing useless answers here and are wasting space here. When I see those posts, I either ignore them or tell them that mylot is not the place for them to be and that they are violating the site's rules by posting useless crap.