family: Numb already of fighting with husband

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Did it come to you a point in your marriage that you are so numb and doesnt feel anything anymore whenever you and you husband or wife fight? See before when we were just starting whenever me and my husband fight i say sorry , then after a year i cried after a fight and then after a year again i snap back the after a year i think i was so immune of fighting that i dont feel anymore and that anything doesnt mean anything to me . I am so numb that i feel like i am not that person who i used to be anymore because he destroys me and turns me into something that i am not. I know some of you would say it takes two to tango yes infact thats true. But i guess thats the way it has to be with us. We are just there for the children without them maybe we are separated anymore. You see a feel sorry for the children whenever they see us fighting i know they are so affected with it but i cant do anything. DId you feel this way too ?