I need some female responses on my latest love issues... Haha.

United States
July 4, 2009 9:59pm CST
So... I am not a bad looking girl. I consider myself pretty nice, and pretty cool to talk to. I love to play video games, I am cool with just about anything, and I am not a very jealous person. I have never really been one to push very hard to get a boyfriend or anything, and I am not a promiscuous girl. Just about every one of my friends has someone... But I have been single for almost a year... I have no idea what is going on. I need some advice!!!
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11 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
5 Jul 09
Maybe there is someone special waiting in the future for you, look at this way, if you had a steady boy inyour life now you could very well miss out on that very special person meant for you simply because you are caught up with someone ..I think most of us have times like this, I think it is the time to learn to be comfortable with yourself, I sometimes feel sorry for people who never let themselves have "me" time...its good to learn how to be happy without having to have someone else in your life...I promise you if you just be yourself and enjoy life you will meet that special one...
@Courtom (287)
• Canada
7 Jul 09
Get out of your routine, and start going to places you haven't been. You could even try online dating, though I have no experience. Join a club, or get more involved in a hobby or something you feel passionately about. You never know who you might meet. I always find that people find their special someone when they arn't looking. Good luck
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
Nothings goind on dear. Its just happened that no one came along. ive been single for almost 2 years now and that doesnt bother me. Thats because i love my freedom. Enjoy life while you still dont have that special someone in your life, because most of the things you wanted to do doenst happen when you have a bf. Not unless you get a bf thats cool with anything. Dont rush! trust me, theres a lot of exciting thing to do while youre not involve with someone. Explore and enjoy.
@gcorp09 (940)
• Singapore
6 Jul 09
Well, it's hard to say what is "wrong". If you really will like to get a boyfriend, you may want to try and expand your circle of friends, and be more proactive. You can try making more friends by participating in more activities which you enjoy. You can also try and attend more activities organized by your friends. You may also want to ask your friends to ask their boyfriends to introduce their guy friends to you. Maybe, you could organize some outings so that you can interact with them. You never know if you will be lucky enough to find one you like. Even if you don't, you do gain more friends too. It's good to know more friends too.
@sublime03 (2338)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
There is nothing wrong with being single but of course its a question we all ask ourselves when we notice everybody around us has a significant other. I have asked myself the same question back when I was in college but it was never a serious concern I had since I know sooner or later I will meet somebody. While I was single, I enjoyed life and went my way and reminded myself that somebody out there is meant for me its a matter of waiting. Now I am happy and contented with what I have.
@jb78000 (15139)
6 Jul 09
maybe it's because you're not really meeting any new men. i'm similar and was in the same situation for a while because all the people i saw were friends and i told random men trying to chat me up more or less to go away. do you have any hobbies - they're usually a good way to meet new people.
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
all I can say is:enjoy your freedom.go out with friends.travel solo.party and shop till you drop. enjoy your life without someone telling you that "you shouldn't do this...".I've been single for 2 years now,and it's great.I get to spoil myself rotten..try meeting other people,better if they're also single.
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
5 Jul 09
That's a tough situation to be in. I was in that same situation two years ago, where everyone I knew was seeming to get guys and I couldn't find a boyfriend at all and I share many characteristics with you and I get along with almost everyone at my school. I don't think there's any clear cut answer here. Sometimes you've gotta be the one to go for it, though. If you're waiting for someone to ask you out you might wait forever, but don't be afraid to ask someone out yourself. That's what I did, after waiting for who knows how long for a guy named Jake to ask me out, I finally called him and asked if he wanted to go to the movies on a date. He said yes, we double dated with some friends so it wouldn't be awkward (bad idea since all they did was make out, which was super awkward) and now, almost 2 years later, we're getting ready to get married in 6 days. ^_^ So don't be afraid to take a chance. And don't rush it, either. I'm assuming you're still pretty young, so you've got plenty of time, there's no need to hurry. I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I started dating my fiance at 17. That was my first, only, and last love, but it was well worth the wait to find him. :) And I'd had a crush on him for years and years. In third grade, his mother tried to get him to ask me out because she knew that we had crushes on each other. xD So never give up, either. There's someone out there that's just right for you, you've just gotta be patient enough to wait for him.
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
Being single is nothing wrong. It's the most perfect time for you to reflect on what you really want to accomplish in a relationship. Ask yourself, are you too picky or insecure or just any reasons... Love will come naturally, that is my advice to you. You don't look for it because it will grow in you until you meet the right person. Of course, it won't work if one just stays at home, so, girl, just go out and have some fun!!! :)
@chi2nasrin (1101)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
It's okey, don't think about it too much. You will find one or you will be found by one guy eventually. Maybe not the right time yet. If you really want to find one, maybe you should start going out. Ask your friends' boyfriend to introduce their friends to you. It's easier when you know someone who knows the new guy. You can also try to look in the internet, there's a lot of people out there who you can get to know. Make new friends, who knows what you will find. Having a boyfriend is not much fun either.. hehe.. then you will have to report wherever you go, or you might want to know wherever they go and do. With some fighting and arguing... hmm... pro and con. Just relax..
5 Jul 09
Hi nice to hear ur story,same here with me though i'm not kinda alarmed with it coz i know i'm still young i think u too,right?well, all i can say is just enjoy ur life while ur still young...enjoy it with ur friends and family...i know there's someone out there that really meant for u,so just wait for him,okay?don't rush urself to get into a relationship coz it's not the key of real happiness if that's the very reason why u want to have some,hmmm...:)