How long would you take

@cwong77 (2010)
Malaysia
July 5, 2009 5:10am CST
We do not always have a good end to all our relationship. If one of your relationship turn sour, how long would you take to get over it? some wounds take time to heal, and scars might remain... For me, it took me almost a year to fully recover..
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7 responses
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
cant aay it is apply to all relationship. the relationship close u deeply for me, my first love also need almost two year jus recover untill i met my right now currently, i am happiness and i am believe i have the fate to be happiness.i think u are too dun be upset, looking forward the better one^^
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• United States
5 Jul 09
I am still not recovered after 3 years believe it or not.... It used to take me one year to get over a relationship...It seems as I am getting older it's taking longer... Yes 3 years is a long time.......
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 09
I am over, just that wound heals, but scar remains. I will try to make the scar less visible in due course. Not going to carry this for long.
@haiershen (1080)
• China
2 Aug 09
it is very difficlut to answer. depend on this guy isn't it you real love,if not,mybe one or two night is really enough, only for you to forgiven him and yourselfs, but if this one is you real love, it is very difficult to forgot,except another relationship is coming. good luck and have a nice day!
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
Thanks.. so, how long for you to overcome one of those bad relationship?
@abanerji (1026)
• India
5 Jul 09
it takes really long to recover from relationships. if your have recovered then it is very good. there are people who never recover. they get married and lok for the 'ex' in their spouse. when they don't find them they spoil the marriage, either they go in for a divirce or carry on with regular conflicts. such situations also affect the life of their children. one can only recover from a break off if one gets a person from whom one gets more love and care than one used to get earlier.
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 09
abanerji, I totally agree... however one who has found better love should not hog the ex factor again.. :)
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
actually it depends to how crucial our break up was... before it took me 2 years to fully recover because this guy was so special to me and at that time i'm very much afraid to take risk and to enter a new relationship... however, the i get matured, the lesser i spend time to find ways in order for me to move on.
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 09
eLsMarie.. good for you ya, and I am sure you live life happier at the moment.. no point cry over spilt milk... but sometimes, weeps la :)
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
Hi, this answer will be different, are people who forgot in a week, are people who never forget the memories about somebody who real was in love. DEPEND, if was a real love or not. Depend how many relations somebody had before, depend if you can forgive yourself fiorst. this is a real problem, to forgive yourself. Not to forgive somebody else. I am one who never accept to forget, but who knows, here is just a problem of time, time is the best in deal with a broken relation.
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
icesmile.. thanks for responding.. and yes, it's all depends on individual, therefore I would like to know how fast can my MyLotters get over and done with..
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
29 Jul 09
For me, if i had the new friend or new boyfriend.I will be better if i have another instead.I think everyone may be alike me too.
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
29 Jul 09
wow.. it's not easy to get a new boyfriend while recovering though.. anyway, thanks for responding
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
ola. da very next day perhaps? haha.. u know what? i'm lucky to be marrying my very first REAL love. i mean, there were lotsa puppy loves previously, but my hubs is my first serious one that lasted more than a month! hehe.. so, not much to say bout how long i'd take to bounce back! stay strong there though, u might think you've recovered, but on certain days, u'll feel the blues, and there is when I'll come handy, to keep you company! cheers...
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 09
submerryn.. thanks, and indeed you have been supportive. and lucky you to have the first love!