How long would you take
By cwong77
@cwong77 (2010)
Malaysia
7 responses
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
cant aay it is apply to all relationship. the relationship close u deeply
for me, my first love also need almost two year jus recover untill i met my right now
currently, i am happiness and i am believe i have the fate to be happiness.i think u are too
dun be upset, looking forward the better one^^
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@Mermaid016 (31)
• United States
5 Jul 09
I am still not recovered after 3 years believe it or not.... It used to take me one year to get over a relationship...It seems as I am getting older it's taking longer... Yes 3 years is a long time.......
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@haiershen (1080)
• China
2 Aug 09
it is very difficlut to answer. depend on this guy isn't it you real love,if not,mybe one or two night is really enough, only for you to forgiven him and yourselfs, but if this one is you real love, it is very difficult to forgot,except another relationship is coming. good luck and have a nice day!
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
5 Jul 09
it takes really long to recover from relationships. if your have recovered then it is very good.
there are people who never recover. they get married and lok for the 'ex' in their spouse. when they don't find them they spoil the marriage, either they go in for a divirce or carry on with regular conflicts. such situations also affect the life of their children.
one can only recover from a break off if one gets a person from whom one gets more love and care than one used to get earlier.
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@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
actually it depends to how crucial our break up was... before it took me 2 years to fully recover because this guy was so special to me and at that time i'm very much afraid to take risk and to enter a new relationship... however, the i get matured, the lesser i spend time to find ways in order for me to move on.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
Hi, this answer will be different, are people who forgot in a week, are people who never forget the memories about somebody who real was in love. DEPEND, if was a real love or not.
Depend how many relations somebody had before, depend if you can forgive yourself fiorst. this is a real problem, to forgive yourself. Not to forgive somebody else.
I am one who never accept to forget, but who knows, here is just a problem of time, time is the best in deal with a broken relation.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
ola. da very next day perhaps? haha.. u know what? i'm lucky to be marrying my very first REAL love. i mean, there were lotsa puppy loves previously, but my hubs is my first serious one that lasted more than a month! hehe.. so, not much to say bout how long i'd take to bounce back! stay strong there though, u might think you've recovered, but on certain days, u'll feel the blues, and there is when I'll come handy, to keep you company! cheers...
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