When flirting becomes perving

July 5, 2009 4:12pm CST
In the real world, not online! When do you think that flirting becomes creepy? When does it become innapropraite? I know this guy that always take it too far and gets really letchy. He gets told in no uncertain terms to back off and I have even had to hit him before as he would not let go. DO you know someone like that? When does flirting or messing about become innapropraite?
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• United States
5 Jul 09
I would say when one or the other sees it in a creepy way and if that happens and the other person is told to stop and does not then it is a definate sign it has gone too far
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5 Jul 09
yeah, that sounds right.
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@KikiLove (13)
• United States
5 Jul 09
I am so happy to see there are others that live in the real world and want real answers about real people. Thank you for this question. I do know many people in this world that if you smile at them or ever just say hi they think it is an open door to do or say anything they want to you. Well I think it is creepy and on the verge of perving when someone talks to you in a way that is less than human. No one should touch unless it is ok on both parties. People should also watch what they are saying to others...if they wouldn't say it in front of their mother...they should not be saying it at all. I don't care how old this person. A woman should be treated as a woman. Not just a play thing.
5 Jul 09
I agree completely, they should show a little respect!
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
I think, flirting is always inappropriate and leads you in trouble when you are already committed to someone else, more so when you are married. If you are single and looking for fun, then that's not a problem. Although, even when you are single, there are still flirty guys who takes advantage of you especially when they know you consented to the flirting. I have encountered guys who flirts beyond the limits. Good thing for me, I was able to handle it.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
28 Sep 09
Hey, Yea that is kind of creepy, I would try and stay away from that person. I find that flirting is okay, but when it comes down to someone trying to touch you or something like that, it is too far, that is inappropriate. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
• United States
6 Jul 09
yeah i know this guy like that. first i thought he was a ok guy. he made me laugh n i never felt so open with anyone talking about sX. it made me feel not as dirty. then he started to get inaproriate by hinting that we should have sX. n thats all he ever thought about around me. he asked me out alot in secret n i keep saying no. its getting weird. he keeps calling me. i thought he was a friend at the beginning of a year so i gave him my number. he just likes flirting with me alot. so yes i do kno someone like that. n i hate it n i kind of feel responsible i feel like i led him on didn't attend to do that at all. i just thought it was all talk.