I am unsatisfied with my boy friend.should i leave him?
By angelmohanty
@angelmohanty (14)
India
July 6, 2009 9:31am CST
I am very funny girl so i am always fun with my bf.he is very with me.he is a nice person.our relationship continue last 3yrs.but these days he has trying to avoid me and do not talk with me.he is always busy with his phone.i do not know to whom he or she has talking.should i ask him that why you avoid me and to whom you are talking.i am bit confused about him.please help me to clear my confusion.
1 response
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
6 Jul 09
i had the same situation, he wouldn't call me unless i call him or text him first, and many other things. so one day i said to myself that i'll not call him again. if he cares about me, he'll call me. if he doesn't care about me, then why should i care about him? that was it, i stopped calling him and he haven't called me for a few month. eventually he called me on x-mas to say marry x-mas even though i don't celebrate x-mas on that day, i celebrate in on January 7th. i told him to F*** himself and that was the end.
you might want to try it, if he wants to be with you he'll call you and will try to find a way to see you
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@angelmohanty (14)
• India
6 Jul 09
yes you are right.i am appreciate with you.actually i was thinking the same things.but i could not leave without him.so what to do?
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
6 Jul 09
nah, you can be without him, you are just scared not to be with him. him not treating you well will hurt you more them not having him at all. besides if he really doesn't want to be with you, then by braking up you'll simply be able to find someone who deserves you sooner. I found the love of my life about a year after breaking up with that guy, turns out that my current boyfriend was crazy about me for a long time, but he didn't want to approach me while i was dating my ex, then we haven't seen each other for over a year and once we ran into each other again something great happen. i now don't know how i ever lived without my boyfriend, and just to think that we could've started dating much sooner if only i wasn't dating the guy who didn't even care about me... never know maybe there is a guy who will make you really happy if he gets a chance?
if you will not do something and he really doesn't care about you, then you will break up anyway, just much later. and if he cares, then you'll know about it because he will do his best to make your relationship work.
