My friend is a snoop? Do you have friends like this?

I'd definitely tell him - anonymously, if necessary. Your friend is scary. Perhaps her possessiveness contributed to the breakdown of the relationship? I would be very careful around her, because if she can do this sort of thing to someone she loved, she could do it to you. Keep your passwords to yourself and don't tell her anything confidential. That way, you'll save yourself from future problems.

Wow that is pretty bad. She obviously isn't over him. It would be one thing to keep checking up on him from her facebook. But to go into his facebook and delete friend requests and stuff is pretty mean. What if those she deleted are female relatives trying to keep in touch? I think you should email him and tell him to change his password. And you friend needs to move on and get a new man or seek out some therapy.

Wow she needs to get over this guy. How would she like it if he was doing that to her. I would try to tell him. He deserves to know his privacy is being invaded. I did have a roomate in college who was a snoop. She always tried to look at my bank book to see how much money I had in my account. She would also try and listen to my conversations with my parents.

Wowser. Your room mate has real issues. I would defininately contact the ex and let him know. That's not only an invasion of privacy, that's messing with a persons life and it's leaning towards stalker-hood. If I ever found someone doing that to me... I would flip out, seriously loose it on the person, and they'd deserve it too.

hmmm..... i think u shud proceed and tell him....bcoz i dont think things will change fr her.. its true..u cannt control urself if u have feeling for sm1.... she caant be considered... as culprit..keeping an eye ia is human nature..bt deleting frnds...well Bt u shud go n tell him to change his password..dont tell him the real reason..u can use sm1 else 4 the job...

I think we have all been on others accounts or spied but you cross the line when you interfere with their friends or friend opportunitys. She needs some guidance this behaviour is not acceptable.

There are many snoopers out there and your friend may not be the only one. It is best to tell the her former boyfriend that the privacy is invaded. Even if you are a stranger, you need to tell him. Think as if you are in his position. In such a case, you would hiighly appreciate such help.

Yes, I certainly would tell him! Mind you, he was the one that told her his password, so he doesn't have a lot of excuse. Most people make far too light a thing of passwords and are happy to share them with almost anyone. I have been in the IT training business quite long enough to despair of people who think it's OK to share a password, even with one's nearest and dearest! Those who do it without realising the implications, I am happy to give (several) friendly words of warning and explanation to; those who have already understood my lessons, I have no sympathy for! If they get hacked left right and center, then they only get what is due to them! Your room-mate's ex is careless but she is behaving far worse. Mind you, she could be even more devious and change the password for him and do all sorts of other damage. You can either put that down to her inherent 'niceness' or to a certain lack of perception on her part, LOL! Your choice!

This chick needs to get over her ex. Come on it's been 10 months and she is still snooping through her exs things. I would be writing this ex boyfriend and telling him to change his passwords. Maybe some of the information that she is deleting before he gets a chance some may be friends from long ago or even family and she is getting all paranoid about what he is doing. I really hate to see her in the future let alone other relationships cause she is just going to get worse.

you should have asked him to change password without telling her first coz she might change the password.Then it will become impossible ....

she is a very big snoop I agree. She had know right getting on her ex boyfriends emails or deleting them. He might have to change his pass word and email so she don't get back on it again. sounds like she is jealous she don't have him back. And she don't want him being with another women.

Poor gril..She must stil loves that guy and notice his everything.Don't want girls cotact he.But she didn't relize she does a wrong thing Totally wrong. Maybe you should talk to her. tell her gone and let it go.

You must tell him if you can't convince your friend to stop doing it again. My friend checked his boyfriend's phone's message before and actually she can't find anything special. I told her to stop as it's really a bad habbit.

Yeah she needs to get over him and I would tell him so he knows what's going down. She needs some help he's not with her anymore and she has no right to reguate him.