it's it ok with you your partner is cheating with you?

Philippines
July 8, 2009 12:32am CST
is it ok with you if your partner is cheating with you, while your also cheating with other? will you get mad or is it just ok cause in the first place your also cheating woith someone else.
4 responses
@icecroft (449)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
I actually don't see the point in staying in the relationship when you're actually cheating on each other. It's either you decide to have an "open" relationship (where it's okay for you to date or fool around with other people) or you just break it off. For me, cheating is a very big issue because fidelity and trust is something that is important in a relationship.
@Amorti (200)
• Turkey
8 Jul 09
If you are both cheating with each other then there is no reason in calling yourselves "partners", which you obviously not anymore. A relation should be built on trust and respect so if you do not hold any of these, you are not even in a relation anymore. If you are both feeling happier with others then be with others! ;)
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
No, it is never OKAY that my partner or even boyfriend is cheating on me. If that happens, he needs to choose and reflect on his actions. However, I am not a person who will get back at him by cheating on him as well.. I don't believe that you can correct or set things right by doing another mistake in your relationship... For me, if I proven that he cheats on me then he needs to decide whom he wants to be with for the rest of his life... My boyfriend knows that if I caught him cheating on me, everything will change... I still believe that every person must be true in their relationship no matter how far they are etc... Cheers! Happy Mylotting! Nice discussion!!!!
@jshekhar (1562)
• India
8 Jul 09
Hello friend, Ideally none of the partners should be cheating but if such a situation arises, I don't think anyone has the right to complain. Both of them are cheating so even if I raise a hoohah, I would get the same from her.