meeting your husband ex gf.
By acie_21
@acie_21 (5633)
Philippines
July 8, 2009 4:27am CST
what happens when you accidentaly meets your husbands ex?will you feel comfortable?will you say your hi?and smile,or can you look her in the eyes?when you meet her will feel irritated?does it hurts you?knowing all about your husband and her ex past?you know..it hurts most specially you knew that they love each other before they were bf/gf but did not end up into marriage.and it hurts more knowing that something happens to them already what i mean "make love"it kinda insults me i dont know why....how about you?happy mylotting!
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@crippledcrossface (53)
• United States
8 Jul 09
Hey,I love your discussion!
Well, actually I've met my husband's 2 ex gf already. One of them I met at a car show, she's one of the models of the car show,He dragged me into her and he asked her if she remember him,the girl just ignored her but I knew already that's his ex gf..he was a little bit excited to talk to her because you can see on his face.after that situation, i walked out and ignore him because he still kinda want to talk to her, I told him just leave her alone, she dont want to talk to you,she ignored you already. It's a bit uncomfortable for me that happened.
Anyways, the 2nd ex situation was not too long ago. We went to a fair here in california which is always celebrated every year before 4th of July. We were just walking into a little store inside the fair.When he stated to me "I think I saw my ex.." I looked to him and I was like "who? where is she?" He told me that she passed by and he seems that he knew this girl. He looked into her eyes (yeah right whatever) cuz he thinks he know this girl walking towards him. They didnt say Hi or anything but he told me that when he looked back when she passed by (that pisses me off big time!), she LOOKED back and smiled at him! (omg! i wanna kick her hahaha)
He is so very excited to see her. I saw her again in another store and I looked into her eyes and she looked away! Then the whole freaking rest of the day he keeps telling me stories about how they met and make love and all that..i dont wanna know about that. That is so harsh!!!!!!! It is so insulting!
But one of his ex, I wanted to meet. The way he tells me their stories,she seems a nice girl. I saw her pictures already, I read most of her letters to him.. She so young when they got together. I dont know why I wanted to meet her. Im just weird i guess. hahaha. I even added her to my facebook and myspace and she confirmed most of my request. hahahaha weird huh?
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
thanks for the appriciation.i love topics that are practical and real life situation.i never met my husband ex and i would like to see them soon.i want to look in my best way cause its kind ackward and shameful if you dont look descent!i hate that when it happens!it really hurts so much most specially you knew that they were very much in love with each other before.i dont know what will i feel or do if that will happen.i hope that someday ill learn to accept the fact that they are just all my husband past and not the future.well, im much more blessed than they are!hehehehe.are you a newly weds?do you already have a baby?hope to see more of your replies and comments!take care!and enjoy life!
@crippledcrossface (53)
• United States
9 Jul 09
Yes i am married for about a year and a half. We have a little princess and she is 17 months right now. Well, u can't really tell when and where you're going to meet ur husbands ex's. bcuz I didn't expect that would happen. I wasn't really dressed up nice and its just I got a lil' bit messy hair. its so embarrasing. hahaha but yah thanks for replying. and thanks for adding me as one of your friends. i like your discussions, i posted replies on your discussions.. =)
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
hello again...
well actually, i have met two of my husband's ex! the one i met when we are not yet married and we met in the church! i can really feel the tension between us especially with other people around who i feel is just fueling the situation...
and that girl is still claiming that time that they are still together...huh!
that girl can't look at me straight on my eyes but i know she's looking at me at the side of her eyes...people there introduce us but she didn't look at me, i smile all the time but deep inside me, i want to tell her that "common tell me in my face that you and my bf are still together!"...and also deep inside me i am proud and feels like i make a score against her...like i slap her in her face because of the fact that i am there and proves that i am the one who is the real gf! hehehe
the other one, i met her some 3years ago and still seeing her around...well she's the first gf! huh! but he told me that what they have in the past is nothing but a game...hehehe coz during those days that they are bf/gf he also have another one! hehehe...
well she's not beautiful, but i don't like her coz she's feeling beautiful! and i can feel that she don't like me too...i remember when i saw her and i'm with my husband, i saw her smiling to my husband even if we are still how many steps away and when we are near to each other she says hi how are you, and my husband, my insensitive husband also says hi and how are you...the girl don't pay me any attention even if my husband introduces me to her! so ...she just continue on talking to my husband with all her smile reaching her ears! waaaah!
but, that does not take a long time...all those happens quickly but it seems that that was too long!
after that, i definitely don't like her! but i know we will always cross each other for she is a friend of my husband's family and we are moving on the same world...and now even if we saw each other, i don't know if she just don't remember me or she just snob me...
i like to meet her exes to make comparisons! hehehe i know its not proper but i like...i still want to meet them even if it gives me a bad day and feeling and sometimes triggers a fight between me and my beloved husband! hahaha
what i just don't understand is why men always defend their ex against their wives...hehehe
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
hehehe...i think so! or maybe they just feel a little insulted and ashamed when we criticize their ex! especially when we say bad things about them...maybe they can't accept that they have been with an ugly girl! hehehe and can't accept that fact! hahaha...something like a defense mechanism...
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
i think our husband are just insecure when we tease or criticize their ex most specially the ugly one's!hahahahah.and its because we are their wives already and no matter what they will say about their ex bad or good we still remains with them.hehehehe!they just want to see us so mad while they are talking good things about their ex!just teasing i think.. maybe thats it.hehehehe!
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
9 Jul 09
My boyfriend's ex is scared of anyone who is in anyway related to my boyfriend... when he tried to break up with her, she broke into his apartment while he was trying to kick her out she stabed him... so whenever she sees someone who cares about him she gets scared. his mother and sister are hairdressers, one day she made an appointment to his mother not knowing who it was (she did it over the phone) once she went to the salon and saw who was going to cut her hair she ran out of there... i find it funny...
in general though, to me it's like "well, you are loser, lost a perfect guy, sucks to be you"
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
10 Jul 09
Hello there,
I think you should look at the bright side, now you are your husband's wife and not her. She must be regert and envy you, what are you even bother to get angry? I have to admit that when i happen to meet my boyfriend's ex. In front of her, i am smiling, say Hi, but when we left,i am not talking to my boyfriend, my boyfriend is like so innocent! But i don't feel happy, maybe that is so-called Jealous?