Should I have the right to be mad ? i need help nowww Mylot.
By britzsofly
@britzsofly (395)
United States
July 8, 2009 1:52pm CST
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months..and I love him a lot..he is the jealous type and so am I. When I want to go to parties he gets mad and upset . Now that he wants to go to one I have the right to get mad too..It's a party going on tonight and it's up the street from the both of our houses. He told me he was goin because another girl told him about it and he wants to go. So I was fussing with him last night and he got upset and pissed off because I told him I didnt want him to go and he if was to go then to not call me ever..of course Its all out of anger but really I just want to not deal with this type of thing if its gonna be like this. I haven't talked to him today and I want to talk to him...But i don't know what to say...I want him to spend time with me because he's in Virginia going to school and he's juss home visiting for two weeks..I can't be selfish but I have the right to express my feelings to him because it's hurting me ..I just can't be in this kinda relationship being soo young..should I call and what should I say ?? How would u handle this ?
6 responses
@mkrishna22 (465)
• India
9 Jul 09
well, i think that both of you should be a lot more understanding. if you say that he is here for 2 weeks,but you want to go to a party. when he going to a party, you say that he is only for 2 weeks here. then, it applies in the first case too. so, you also should forego your party to spend time with him and let him know about this. then, if you insist that he also should not go to a party without you or leaving you, it is fair.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
you have the right to be mad at him because in the first place he's the one who initiated the "not-to-go-to-party-or-else-i'll-be-angry." he's reaction towards you is very much unfair on your part. trust is very much important in a relationship and i don't think both of you guys have that in mind... it's a sad commitment.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
8 Jul 09
I think you're both being a little petty and almost purposely causing drama between each other. If you love and respect each other you'd make decisions like this together, and you'd trust each other instead of being jealous.
@xomgitskamax (937)
• United States
8 Jul 09
I say you have the right to be mad. but he shouldn't be mad at you. Just tell him now you know how i feel when i want to go out or something along that line. I would call him even though your scared. It lets him know that you at least care. Tell him how you feel and your sorry that your upset you just don't want him to leave for virgina. I hope this works.
Happy Mylotting!
@Raven7317 (691)
• United States
8 Jul 09
Why can't you go with him? If both of you are serious about this relationship, being together, especially if you only have limited time to see each other, should be more important to each of you than playing games. And jealously is nothing but a head game. Call him, tell him you are sorry for blowing up at him. State that you really don't want him to go because you want to spend time with him. The obvious and natural solution should be that he invites you to go with him.
