My friend has a problem.... HELP!!!!!!
By harshrosicky
@harshrosicky (626)
India
July 9, 2009 1:13am CST
My friend likes this girl. When he asks her out she always comes but with a friend of hers. Now she talks good and seems comfortable with him but still brings that friend of hers everywhere...... What does this means.... she doesn't likes him? He asked me to come with him the next time..... so that i can keep her friend busy and they can have some privacy... should i go? Wouldn't my going worsen the situation...
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8 responses
@savypat (20216)
• United States
9 Jul 09
Have you thought that it might be her friend that is interested in your friend and that she is only going with him so that he will notice her friend. If you go with them next time you might be able to observe just how things are going.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
9 Jul 09
That is actually a very good point.... Yeah... Maybe she likes him.... and hooks up with her... like that i can try aand get his ex.... she looks nice....
@jemifer (124)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
Maybe the girl doesn't know the guy that much yet and just being cautious. But it can also be that the parents of the girl doesn't want her to go alone or that girl is really counting on her "best friend" for her/his opinion about the guy. It's more like he's not that sure about the guy yet. It's better if you will join them so they will be able know each other more.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
9 Jul 09
They are classmates for two years..... her parents doesn't know that she is dating someone.... and counting on the best friend ..... she is not so confident then as she pretends....
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
when I was in my younger days, my father would never allow me to go out with my boyfriend unchaperoned. One of my siblings must follow me. He was over protective of his daughters. This continued until I got married. I believe your friend's girlfriend is under strict orders from her parents to bring someone when she meet your friend. Maybe it is good idea that you tag along too so the other bodyguard has a friend and this allows your friend to be in private with his girlfriend. 
@srganesh (6340)
• India
9 Jul 09
Girls are too cautious.It looks she has not judged her relationship with your friend until now.She is on the borderline and so she is not coming alone.If your friend can win the girl's heart then she would come alone.Now,if you are going to accompany your friend the next time,she would depart immediately seeing you.Check it out and tell me her reactions.Cheers!
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
9 Jul 09
My friend had this thought.... so once he called her for lunch in a crowded McD.... her friend still accompanied her..
@raajeshk88 (23)
• India
9 Jul 09
My freind this is a very peculiar character of girls when they go out with theri boy freinds for the first time. You accompany him and explain her freind to give privacy to them.
@koalapenguin (2707)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
i can't really say.. but the idea is good. you can come if you really like to help your friend. Just tell him your limitations.
@harshrosicky (626)
• India
10 Jul 09
What limitations are you talking about here... if i would like to help... it would be unlimited...
@aakansha12 (183)
• India
9 Jul 09
I must say if he really likes her he could tell her that he need little privacy in their talk . Ofcourse not in front of her friend but tell her on phone so that he don't hurt her friend . I think its common that girls bring their friends along to not get nervous but once they start feeling comfortable they stop doing that .
So best of luck buddy :)
