Easily gets attached to emotions

Philippines
July 9, 2009 1:37am CST
I met this friend through chat. Undeniably, after long hours of talk and chat, exchange of pictures, I fell in love for him. His achievements amazed me and he fits my standards as well. Until he told me that he is starting to like me. And I told him that I also feel the same. After a week, we are about to meet each other but unfortunately, he received an e-mail that his scholarship for Australia was approved. I am sad because I miss him so much and got no chance to meet him personally because he will stay there for almost 1 year. I wanted to take care of him and make him feel loved and treasured but I am hesitant because I am afraid to get hurt. What should I do? Is it possible for someone to get deeply attached to romantic feelings for someone whom she haven't personally met, yet wanted the man to be her lifetime partner? That's what I feel now...
2 responses
babshish
@babshish (1387)
• India
9 Jul 09
Hi Cristina, What you feel is just attraction for that person, not love. You are impressed by him in some or the other way. I feel you should give some more time for this relationship to grow where you can go more deep in such relationship. Anyways you met him on internet, so no matter whereever he is in the world can be in touch with you. And as it is said, that Distance makes the heart grow fonder. So let him go to Australia and stay there for a year or so, in mean time you can be in touch with him and try to understand each other more. So within one year you will definately come to some conclusion and then think of whatever you want from your relationship. Just my view.
neverweep
@neverweep (3)
• China
9 Jul 09
i think you should calm down, and ask yourself do you really know him and love him from your own heart.what you feel just now is only from the contact through the computer.As i know,things happening on internet,especially love,are not true.WE just lost ourself in it, when you wake up.Nothing happened .God press you!