Will you attend to your baby immediately

In every different cases, I will have different actions upon their demanding. But I would say for those who have the first baby, they will act more panic when their baby cries. Same goes to me... Me and my husband used to attend immediately to my daughter which is also our first child. When come to the second baby, the story has change... we both take slow motion on his demanding and keep pushing each others to go and check what he want... LOL

I used to attend to my girl almost immediately whenever she needed me (When she was a baby). I can clearly remembered that I cried a lot during my confinement period. Maybe because I just gave a lot of pressure to myself to attend her for every single minutes? Sometimes when she cried, I cried too! It was really an embarrassed matter to talk about. But things do not stay the same now. She has grow older therefore I could communicate to her and let her know that mommy could not stay with her all the time. So she needs to be alone with television, books, toys and etc. If she fall down and cried, for sure I will rush to her and check on her...or else, she will come to me and I will attend her.

I'm a firm believer in cry it out. Children need to self soothe and learning that behavior comes from the parents not picking it up every time it cries or sniffles or makes a sound. There have been more than one long nights in my house when my DD didn't want to sleep. We put her in her crib, turned the lights off and turned on her Fisher Price aquarium and let her cry herself to sleep. She's not going to remember that mommy and daddy didn't come running, so why oh why do some parents think it's necessary to do so?

When my son was a baby i ever gave him alone for awhile, but when i came back to him i was shock he made the room mess and tore my wallpaper, since that day i didn't gave him alone.

The first couple of months, I will attend to her immediately. After that, after I am able to recognise her 5 different tones of crying, I'll know if she is in pain, hungry, bored, hot or any others, so I will know if to attent immediately or can wait a couple of minutes longer. It's important to recognise the different crying sounds of your baby.

Well, when my first daughter was born, I would almost always hold her when she was crying, because I really didn't know what else to do! But now, I am definitely a lot more experienced with motherhood, and they DO say that no baby can ever get enough love and attention from their parent, and that they cannot get spoiled from that love and attention at their young age. Now, with my littlest child, she often cries whenever I walk away or if I am not near her, but I let her whine and cry for a little while, unless she is hungry or teething, then I rush to her aide because I know she is crying for a personal need. But, I know she gets jealous because she has an older sister and wants me to have all the attention on her, that is why she cries when I am not by her lol, but I need to share my love with both children :D

When my youngest was a baby and she cried, yes I let her cry for a little bit before attending to her. It also depended on her cry though, you always can tell the cry from I'm hurt, or I just want attention. The I just want attention cry would usually stop before I got there and she found a way to entertain herself. Now that she is older she plays by herself when her older brother and sister are playing something she can't. So I think it benefits them in older years.