How would you feel if the person you referred to Mylot refuse to join under you
By vingyan06
@vingyan06 (2486)
Malaysia
July 9, 2009 12:02pm CST
I think this is going to make me mad if this happen to me. How would you feel if the person you referred to Mylot refuse to join under you. Let me make it clearer. You referred some one to join Mylot, they are interested but they refuse to use your link provided to join. That means they have joined Mylot but nothing to do with your link. Huh, what you have explain to her all gone, wasted....You telling her what is good at Mtlot, how to make money here. But they are genuine, they just don't want to join as your referral. Why they are people so selfish. They don't lose anything for join under some one! Perhaps they can get a good UP LINE to coach and guide them on how to make the earnings.
If this happen to you, will you get mad? How would you feel? Once they join Mylot and add you as friends, will you accept their invitations?
OR
Your friends referred you to join Mylot, will you happily join under your friends? You will ignore the link they give you and Then you join directly ?
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17 responses
@cwachid (160)
• Indonesia
10 Jul 09
This has happened many times in my life. Unless we can prove them, if we also with those process before. Therefore I will happy to help them when they need me as member under them. From this, I got quite good response even though only 20%. But here, I still in process of enjoy as learning. In this level, I can't prove them about how good this mylots. Soon I able reach a star and earn more then I would refer to them. Enjoy in mylots ...
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Thank you your comments. If it happen many times in your life, then you must be not happy that. If we are more establish at Mylot, I think people easy to get to trust us and might accept our invitation easily.
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@browneyed (2522)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 09
If it happened to me, I wouldn't get mad. I'd hope they'd join through me, but if they didn't, it's their choice, they don't have to, they have the right to do what they want. I have bigger things to get mad about.
If a 'friend' referred me to myLot or any other program for that matter, I'd only join through them if I was truly interested in the program.
@browneyed (2522)
• United Kingdom
10 Jul 09
Erm, that's not exactly what I said. I wouldn't join a program just because a friend recommended it. I'd join IF I was interested.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Yeah, you are a good friends indeed, just like me. If someone share a interested website or earning program with me, I will not heasited to join under them.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Don;t feel sad. You may just proceed to refer some other friends.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
i have had this happened to me in another site i am in, where this person asks what the site is all about, etc etc, and after i have told that person everything i know, that person signed up not on my link. well, it happens, sometimes it gets on their nerves if they know that other people earns from them, they are selfish people. be glad that you got no connection with these kinds. i have had it happened to me offline too in another work. it is just as irritating as frustrating to really teach this people, more like all they want is what they can gain and dont want to help others.
i was referred here by a friend, and of course i signed up right away, i know about referrers earning from referrals and i am not bothered by it. in fact i find it a good thing since i know i have helped my upline even in just a little way.
if that person will add me as a friend, id for sure will NOT accept him or her.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Thank you, Jayrene. I know it is not a good feeling when you teach and explain everything to them, they then go join independently. My brother refer me here. And I am happy to join under him. What is wrong and what will I lost for join under him. Moreover I can help in his earning. Maybe 1 day he got the payout he will buy me a thank you gift. LOL
I will keep refer my friends to Mylot since I like this site very much. I just hope I will not meet those selfish people....,
@handsomerohith (326)
• India
10 Jul 09
i make one of my friend to join in mylot, he accept to join, so i make him to join ynder my downline. but after he goes to his house, he created another account in mylot and start doing discussion, but i didnt make angry with him, becuase it is his own freedom to do. so i didnt interfer in that matter and just leave it,.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Yaeh, just let it be... it is their freedom to join independently or join under friends.
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Happens to me a couple of times so far. The first time, I was annoyed, but not mad. Come on, it's not like we can earn millions from them. But it just shows that when it comes to money, better not rely on friends. That is why, if you want to be successful, rely on yourself and not depend on your friends. We never know what friends might think of our success. Secretly, they might envy you and that is the reason why they wont even want to help to add even a single cent into your account! To those people who went around and sign up independently, I only have one thing to say. They have to work themself up solo and not have the circle of community they might have gotten from their referer. And they might lose out on the tips and tricks too. So, good luck to them!
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
I totally with you, we need not to rely on friends or referral on the earning. We will get to know their real character... I hope you will keep get your friends to join, if you like this site, and why not just share with the people you know. They sign under you or not, that is another issue. For those that don't join under you, hope they don't turn you down.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
So you will get mad just like what I will do :)
But somehow, this is only few cents earning for each day. Don't bother too much on what they do. Most important we involve myself at Mylot and have fun here.
If they sent a friend request, I would accept it. @vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
You are a good Mylotter indeed :) I think I will get mad for a while if they do not join under me :(
Somehow I will go to accept their friend request.
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
9 Jul 09
I have never attempted to refer someone for any site. So I wouldn't know how I would feel. I dont think i was referred. I just remember googling and seeing the site name. I checked it out. AFter a few days or so I signed up. I think it was through regular link and not under anyone but i have no way of knowing.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Jessi0887, we referred someone is also nothing wrong... Why not refer some of your friends to join mylot. They have have and get earn, and we both get the benefits...
@gcorp09 (940)
• Singapore
10 Jul 09
Well, I may get angry at the person for a while, but I will also do nothing about it. I mean, you may have referred the person, but it's really their freedom if they will like to join under you. We can't really force people to use our referral link to join under us. If they had joined not under me, but later add me as a friend, I will most likely still accept it. It's no use getting angry at them since they had already joined. There's no way to reverse the situation, right?
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
What you say is correct, we might not want any body to spoil our mood. And no point we get mad on them. I will still accept their friend request anywhere.
@thhoon72 (1009)
• Singapore
10 Jul 09
I happened to find myLot while searching for online businesses. I think I should have joined under someone. I will be a little angry if the person I referred to myLot did not join under me, but will not be mad. Cos it is their freedom. At least, I got to know their real character through this. When I first joined myLot, I did a lot of referring. A friend told me she is not really interested in such a site, but after sometimes, I think I saw her id in one of the discussion topic. Her personal information totally matched. So I request to add her as friend, but until now, she still did not add me. So that is one friend less for me. Cheers =))
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Thank you sharing here, so you get to know a friend real character at Mylot. People sometimes just envy on what we are going to have. Somehow, they really got nothing harmful to join under our referral link.
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
9 Jul 09
Well,I have had such experiences so I am no longer bothered by them.People are very selfish,they never want anything good to happen to anyone.As you said I have spent time and effort explaining everything only to find that they have joined independently.Earlier,I used to feel bad about this but no I no longer feel hurt by someone whom I referred but did not join through my referral link.And yes,I have always joined through the links my friends sent me but they betrayed me,even my best of friends did that.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
I just could not accept to have friends that are so selfish. But I still have lots of friends that always jealous on what I have. We can not do anything to our friends that join independently by ignoring our referral link. Somehow, I will never do this to my friends, I always happy to join under my friends.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Yeah, if there is such situation happen to me, I will just get mad for a while, and will go for another referral.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
Yes, I understand this is not a good feeling. Just wish this will not happen to you and ME.
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
Same here. I just accepted the fact that some people are ungrateful and they are greedy. So if they think that you will get richer here because of their help, that is because of their crab mentality. They wanted to get to reach the top by pulling someone down. It is like a mentality that is sickening and is creeps in so fast if they love money.
Some friends joined me here, and they have answered a few posts, to think that they already created another account which they are not thinking wisely that they will get ban when they use the same IP address.
Anyway, just don't mind them. Let them be and what they do, will also go back to them. What you sow, you will also reap. So i guess, we should all be focus on what we can do and not to depend on anyone else.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
I do understand how you feel. You have made the effort explaining how the site goes.
How to earn, how to increase your earnings.... and it is just wasted. Even disappointing to know that he joined but was not under you.
I have invited quite a few to join. I do know that they have not joined under me.
As far as them joining without you knowing, I really have no idea. I think it would be better not knowing at all. I guess that is just how the way it goes.
@Killthechico (5)
• United States
10 Jul 09
Yeah thats happened to me before on myspace adding sites. I mean...seriously? help me out just a little? I mean I prolly helped you out but you cant do the same for me? Selfish -.-
