What will you do if your in relationship life partner betray you?..

Indonesia
July 9, 2009 7:09pm CST
Just supposed you're already in relationship and your life partner betray you, and He/She had confess was already slept with other Man/Woman... What will you do my friends?..
5 responses
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
12 Jul 09
Probably kick them to the curb.....I don't think there is any excuse for betraying someone you are supposed to love....
• Indonesia
12 Jul 09
Yea, i wish i could kick her too...
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
flirting with another one already make me angry how much more that, and if ever i had that kind of thing going on with my partner, i would really be waging war of some sort, i dont know if i can forgive him. that would really freak me out.
• Indonesia
11 Jul 09
... Thanks for your response jayrene...
• Portugal
10 Jul 09
Well, in my real experiences, I gave him chances for his first....second....third....fourth... goodness! Not for the fifth times! lol I honestly broke up with him and will never accept him anymore. I got my own theory for it....For the first mistake, it could be an accident; second mistake,could be my fault; third mistake,could be my ignorance and being a loyal wife; fourth mistakes, he'd done it intentionally! RRRR!! Yes, I definitely am a loyal wife but not a martyr one. lol He's just repeatedly done those same mistakes. hehe What do you think my friend? Any advice.. please.... ^_^ Thanks for the post ^^
• Indonesia
10 Jul 09
Wow... Surely you have a kind of a very loyal and generous heart. Usually there will be only 2 counts for changes to forgive something... So at the first place could be an accident huh?.. In my case, it was more than an accident i think... Because she done it twice in less than 4 hour maybe... She could be enjoy it... Damn Thanks for both of your response anyway... Cheers for me
@snowy22315 (179592)
• United States
10 Jul 09
I don think I could deal with that one. I would really not want to be with someone who would do that. Maybe if they begged my forgiveness and got counseling I might be able to get past it, but I would be sincerely offended.
• Indonesia
10 Jul 09
Very deep in me, i don't want to open up this conversation here, because it's actually happens to me now... But this disturbance always stressing me up when i look at her face and body everyday... I try to hide this like were never happen before or tried to forget it... If wasn't because our child, it will be easy for me... Thanks for both of your responses.
@MsWhtny (42)
• United States
10 Jul 09
I would move on from that relationship. It may be hard to do, but definitely worth it. I think that if you forgive someone for cheating that they will only do it again because they know that you will stay either way.
• Indonesia
10 Jul 09
I got your point MsWhtny... You could be true... Thanks for your response.