Would you said "no" to your friend, if he/she said "no" to you before?

United States
July 9, 2009 9:13pm CST
It would sounds like "an eye for an eye". Would you said "no" to your friend, if your friend said "no" to you before? For whatever reason, maybe you need your friend's help, or you want to do something together, but your friend rejected you before. Now, it is your friend's turn asking your a favor. Now, you have the authority to rejected your friend. Would you do that?
4 responses
seymiss
@seymiss (622)
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10 Jul 09
They say two wrong don't make it right, so i don't think i'll do the same i'll help my friend just to show he/she that iam not like he/she and that perhaps iam better if i fall to his/her standard then iam no less better than he/she.
melamine1985
@melamine1985 (7)
• China
10 Jul 09
I agree with you strongly
katerina
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Absolutely you are right my dear to say no to your friend, is it the same one you mentioned in that other discussion who said you were getting fat. If it was the same one I don't even see why you would want to still be friends with such an unpleasant young man. I don't think you should help him at all as he hurt your feelings. There are plenty of other young men out there who might think you have a lovely figure and won't be so impolite as to mention the extra weight you gained.
icehut
@icehut (508)
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11 Jul 09
If you go with an-eye-for-an-eye then you two are not true friends... Offer your hand in friendship and give your friend a second chance... The next time you need help and your friend again says "no," that's when you know your friend is not a true friend...
fly001
@fly001 (30)
• China
8 Aug 09
For me, it is not necessary. I usually ask myself to be kind and sincere to every friend and try to understand them. Every one may has his or her real reason to say no to you. so if you can help them or say yes to them ,you'd better be kind to them and help them.